A Kansas Dad’s Concerns Over Child Support Postcards

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A Kansas dad is feeling a mix of shock and embarrassment over some postcards he’s been receiving from the government. These eye-catching red monthly reminders are prompts for him to pay his child support, and he believes they invade his privacy.

This father, who prefers to be called “Mike,” spoke with local news outlet KWCH, expressing his dismay: “I was completely taken aback. It’s not just shocking; it’s mortifying that they would distribute these as public information.” The Kansas Department of Children and Families sends out these monthly notices not just to those who are behind on payments, but to every non-custodial parent, which can be particularly awkward for those like Mike who are diligent about their responsibilities. Instead of arriving in discreet envelopes, the cards boldly announce, “Have you paid your child support this month?” in glaring red.

A representative from the Kansas DCF defended the postcards, claiming they are meant as a reminder rather than a shaming tactic. However, it’s hard to see how bright red cards can be considered discreet. “If they believe this is appropriate, what else will they do? How far will they go in invading our privacy?” Mike raised a valid concern about how much personal information we’re comfortable with the government broadcasting.

While the intention might be to encourage payments, treating both compliant parents and those who neglect their duties the same way seems quite unfair. It’s one thing to be judged for falling behind on payments, but it’s another to have your neighbors think you’re in the same boat as someone who doesn’t contribute at all. The non-custodial parents who are irresponsible probably just toss these reminders in the trash anyway.

Family law expert, Jamie L. Ross, told a parenting site that while the invasion of privacy is concerning, it pales in comparison to the millions of children living in poverty due to noncustodial parents failing to provide support. It certainly appears that the responsible parents are being unfairly lumped in with those who are not.

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Conclusion

In summary, while the Kansas father’s concerns about privacy are valid, the broader issue remains the need for responsible parenting and ensuring that children receive the support they need.