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The Importance of Having Fun With Your Partner
One of my mom friends, Sarah, shared a delightful date night she experienced with her husband. They enjoyed cocktails at a rooftop restaurant while watching the sun dip below the horizon. After that, they rented bikes and pedaled along the river to another eatery for dinner, then rode back to return the bikes before heading home. “It was so much fun!” she exclaimed. “We haven’t done anything new like that in years!”
This made me wonder: how much fun do I really have with my own partner? Lately, we’ve been acting more like the managers of a small business than a couple. Sure, we’re keeping things running smoothly—our kids are happy, the bills are paid, and life is on track—but the joy we once shared before becoming parents has taken a back seat. We often feel guilty about any time spent away from the kids, and let’s face it, expenses add up. Plus, there’s always something that seems more urgent than just having fun: doctor’s appointments, school shopping, or tax prep.
But I’ve come to realize that we desperately need to carve out time for fun—both for our relationship and, ultimately, for the well-being of our children. When you choose a partner, you do so based on shared values, humor, and intelligence. These traits form the foundation of your relationship, but it’s the fun that truly holds everything together. Without it, we risk turning into mere roommates managing a household rather than a loving couple.
Like my friend, I realize it’s been far too long since my partner and I have engaged in anything playful. We haven’t shared a good laugh or tried something new in ages. The grind of parenting can lead you to play it safe, always worrying about the next meal or laundry load. However, if we don’t take a moment to pause and remember what brought us together in the first place, we’re destined to live as co-workers in a well-oiled machine. And who wants that?
So here’s a thought: let’s add “plan fun activities with my husband” to the to-do list. Just kidding! I already know what we should do: sip cocktails on a rooftop, ride bikes, and enjoy dinner. Who knows, maybe we’ll even throw in a poker game in Vegas!
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In summary, don’t let the responsibilities of parenthood overshadow the fun and joy in your relationship. Embrace the playful side of your partnership—it’s essential for keeping the love alive and thriving.