A Little Background: I’m a parent. My partner and I are raising a lively crew of kids, and after more than a decade of parenting, I’ve gained a wealth of knowledge—not just about my children, but about life, society, and myself. Being a mom has transformed my perspective on what really matters. I adore my family and cherish my children more than anything.
Yet, every now and then, I step away from my mom duties and enjoy a night out with my girlfriends. I ditch the apron, slip into my chic outfit (Instagram, here I come!), style my hair, and apply that perfect red lipstick. I feel fabulous, and the night is all about us!
I absolutely love spending time with my girlfriends—sharing laughs, enjoying adult conversations, and simply unwinding. However, if I hear one more discussion about diapers, kid-friendly meals, or essential oils for gum removal, I might just lose it!
We’re all navigating this parenting journey together and can certainly learn from each other. But when we have babysitters at home, dressed in our best, it’s time to put down the parenting talk. Here are five topics I refuse to discuss during Girls’ Night Out:
- Schedules and Routines: Naptimes, bedtimes, reading times, and yes, even poop times. Sure, these are common topics among parents, but when we’re out enjoying nachos and drinks, I’d rather not discuss the intricacies of a naptime schedule. If you’ve got tips for getting your wiggly toddler to nap, send me a message! But when I’m holding a cold drink, let’s save the parenting strategies for another day.
- Meal Plans for Kids: Let’s be real. Just feed them food. That’s it. No need to turn it into an elaborate discussion. Boom, problem solved.
- Cleaning Routines: I’m not a fan of cleaning, especially with a house full of kids. I once sat through a lengthy conversation about kitchen cleanliness and how much counter space should be used. Honestly, I can’t think of anything less interesting while we’re devouring nachos. If organizing your kitchen makes you happy, great! But I’d rather talk about literally anything else while we enjoy our time together.
- Menstruation Talk: Ladies, we’ve been dealing with periods since we were tweens. It’s a regular part of life, and frankly, I don’t need to discuss it over cocktails. I’m not embarrassed; I’ve dealt with worse things. Let’s find more stimulating topics to dive into while we sip our drinks.
- Birth Stories: Sure, giving birth is a monumental occasion, and I remember it vividly. However, it doesn’t need to be the centerpiece of every conversation. Unless someone just had a baby or is expecting, I think we’ve covered that ground enough. Let’s focus on the here and now instead of rehashing all the details over drinks.
So, if you’ll pass the salt, I’m ready to kick off the fun!
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Summary: Girls’ Night Out is a time to unwind and connect with friends, not to dive into the nitty-gritty of parenting. From nap schedules to birth stories, there are topics I prefer to leave off the table in favor of laughter, good food, and enjoyable company.