The 8 Apologies Every Mom Should Consider

Ever since my little one made their grand entrance into the world, I feel like I’m starring in a quirky comedy. It’s like I’m fumbling through a script that’s being filmed every day. Just today, after giving my child a serious talking-to in the car, I turned to my friend Amy in the passenger seat and whispered with a nervous laugh, “I have no idea what I’m doing!”

While I may not have all the answers, I do know how to apologize. Whether it’s dealing with working-mom guilt, raising my voice, or accidentally bumping my kid with my foot (totally unintentional, I promise!), I’ve made it a point to crouch down and look into their big, innocent eyes and say, “I’m sorry, sweetheart.” I own my mistakes, and we always find a way to move on together.

But as I navigate this parenting adventure, I’ve also realized I’ve let some wonderful parts of my life slip away. It’s high time I make some heartfelt apologies.

Dear Breasts,

Oh, my lovely ladies—remember when you were full and perky, filling out a B cup and making me feel fabulous? Of course you do! Then, once the baby arrived, it felt like all that was sacrificed for the sake of feeding. I’m sorry for that rapid transformation from glamour to functionality. You deserved better! How about we plan a little shopping spree together? I’ve got a gift card from a lovely shop that’ll help us feel like a million bucks again, even if it’s not quite the same.

Dear Streaming Shows,

I’m really sorry for missing out on all the amazing series that have come out since September 2010. Can you please tell my friends to stop reminding me how much I’m missing? I promise I’ll catch up someday, maybe when I can plug a USB stick into my eye!

Dear Memory,

Oh man, where was I going with this? Sorry if I seem a little scatterbrained! (Sniffs air.) What was this column about again?

Dear Car Floor,

I owe you a massive apology. It’s like a crumb explosion in there every day! I swear my kid manages to create a mess faster than I can clean it. I can’t even remember what color you used to be! One day, I promise it’ll be cleaner.

Dear Magazines,

I see you stacked up, filled with juicy articles and fashion tips. I haven’t forgotten you! I wish I had even a moment to crack you open. I’ll get to you eventually—maybe I’ll just move you to the bathroom for some quality reading time.

Dear Non-Parent Friends,

I’m so sorry for repeating myself and not always remembering who I’ve told what. If you heard a story twice, I’m doubly sorry if you were there for the original! Sometimes, I exaggerate just to keep things interesting. It’s tough juggling so many things in my head!

Dear Sleep,

You are the long-lost love of my life. I’m truly sorry for not fighting harder to keep you around. I miss you, my beautiful slumber! One day, I hope we’ll reunite, and I can blissfully drift off without a care in the world.

Dear Husband’s… uh, Member,

I could apologize, but really, let’s be honest—it’s your fault for putting all this pressure on me!

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In summary, motherhood is a journey filled with ups and downs, and apologies often come part and parcel with the experience. It’s essential to recognize the little things we miss and make peace with them as we navigate this beautiful chaos.