7 Ways Other Moms Can Be Your Lifesavers

Navigating the world of parenting little ones has proven to be more challenging than I ever anticipated. With limited support systems in place, it often feels like it’s just me on the front lines every day for years. In our country, structural assistance is scarce—maternity and sick leaves are a privilege, subsidized daycare is nearly nonexistent, and many parents juggle work hours that clash with school schedules. Add in the fact that family help can be far away and finances are tight, and it often leaves us moms feeling isolated and stressed, hoping we don’t fall ill or injure ourselves.

However, amid the chaos, I’ve discovered that other mothers can be incredible lifesavers. I think many parents share this sentiment, so let’s give a shout-out to the moms who step up and fill the void in our communities. Here are seven instances when fellow mothers come to the rescue.

1. When You’ve Got a Newborn

After you bring your first baby home, overwhelmed by exhaustion and pain, you might think you can’t make it through another sleepless night. Thankfully, a wonderful friend may swoop in to do the night shift, allowing you a precious block of sleep. Even if you’re still struggling to rest due to pumping or breast pain, at least you’ll have someone to chat with through the long, dark hours.

2. Newborn Support, Part II

Let’s say it’s day 10 with your little one and you suddenly decide you need to set up a complicated contraption like a co-sleeper or a Mamaroo. You might find it impossible to assemble while barely holding on to your sanity. Luckily, a well-rested mom can come to the rescue, putting it together in mere minutes.

3. When Sleep Becomes Elusive

When you discover your little one is a terrible sleeper, you might find yourself desperately seeking solutions. Other moms will come to your aid with their “secret weapons,” like a baby sling or that magical sleep book that worked wonders for them. And when those don’t pan out (because, let’s face it, sometimes nothing works), they’ll offer comforting advice on co-sleeping, sleep training, or those cry-it-out methods.

4. When You Welcome a Second Child

The arrival of your second baby brings a whirlwind of change. Thankfully, other mothers often organize meal drops so you don’t have to worry about cooking for weeks. They might even take your older child out for some fun, giving you the chance to nap with the newcomer.

5. When There’s an Accident at the Playground

If your child has an unexpected tumble from the jungle gym, and you need to rush one kid to the ER, other moms will step in to watch your other child for the long hours it takes to be seen by a specialist.

6. When You Forget the Essentials

Whether you find yourself at the park without wipes, at the playground without snacks, or at a playdate lacking a change of clothes, other moms are usually more than willing to lend a hand.

7. When You Return to Work

If you’ve gone back to work and can’t attend the kindergarten orientation because of your job’s schedule, other moms will take the time to snap pictures of handouts and email them to you. They’ll fill you in on the new teacher, after-school options, and even toss in some lunch ideas.

While our country has a long way to go in terms of formal family support, many parents enjoy the benefits of nearby relatives, flexible work hours, and reliable partners. But help can come in various forms. For instance, a neighbor who drops off a tray of lasagna when you’re recovering from childbirth is an absolute gem. She’s definitely saving your day!

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In summary, being a parent can feel overwhelming, but the support from fellow mothers can make a world of difference. It’s a reminder that we’re all in this together, and sometimes all it takes is a helping hand from another mom to lighten the load.