Why Moms Should Schedule Their Own Playdates

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Like many women from previous generations, my grandmothers were avid bridge enthusiasts, and their bridge luncheons with friends were sacred occasions. As a kid, I struggled to understand the charm of this card game. Now, I realize that those gatherings were less about the game and more about the women taking a break from the demands of kids, partners, and daily chores to bond, share laughter, and enjoy each other’s company. My grandmothers grasped a vital truth that I’m just beginning to appreciate: moms truly need their own playdates. Here’s why:

1. Fewer Chances for Mom Time
   As your children grow, the opportunities for connecting with fellow moms tend to dwindle. I spent countless hours chatting with friends while waiting for ballet classes, soccer games, and swim lessons to wrap up, not realizing how much I cherished that time until it started to fade. Nowadays, my kids are more independent—they bike or drive to their activities or school—resulting in fewer gatherings with mom friends. At a recent graduation party, I found myself reminiscing with the moms from my kids’ old Brownie Troop, and it hit me just how long it had been since we all got together. Time to plan a moms-only reunion!
2. Building Lifelong Friendships
   Life as a parent is hectic, and there are moments when you feel like you’re on-call 24/7. But, just as it’s essential to nurture your relationship with your partner, it’s equally important to invest in friendships. Once the kids are grown, you can find yourself with an abundance of free time that you’ll want to fill with the company of those who understand your journey.
3. Navigating Life’s Ups and Downs
   My grandmother’s bridge club has endured for over fifty years, and she often reminds me of the countless experiences they’ve shared—the highs and lows of life. From marriages to divorces, financial struggles to successes, and everything in between, having close friends to celebrate the good times and support you through the tough ones is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. Now that I’m in my forties, those life events resonate much more closely with my reality.
4. Simply for the Joy of It
   Let’s be honest: getting together is just plain fun! These gatherings don’t have to resemble wild nights out; they can be as simple as enjoying great food, sipping some wine, laughing at our own inside jokes, and reminiscing about the craziness of life. It’s all about connecting and celebrating the little joys, which is something we all need.

So, if you’ll excuse me, I think it’s time to arrange my own playdate. Bridge, anyone? For more insights on creating meaningful connections and navigating parenthood, check out one of our other blog posts here. And if you’re interested in home insemination options, Make a Mom offers excellent resources and kits. For further information about pregnancy, this is an excellent resource.

Summary

Moms need dedicated time to connect with friends as they navigate the challenges of parenting. Opportunities to bond shrink as kids grow more independent, making it crucial to prioritize friendships. These relationships provide support through life’s ups and downs and offer a much-needed dose of fun and laughter. So, it’s time to schedule those playdates!