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6 Reasons Why It’s Totally Fine to Not Be Perfect as a Working Mom

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Being a working mom can feel like you’re juggling a million tasks while trying to maintain that elusive balance of “having it all.” When I was a stay-at-home mom, things were challenging but manageable. The kids were fed, we were mostly clean, and we generally made it to our activities on time. But once I returned to work, it felt like I was suddenly in a whirlwind of drop-offs, pick-ups, babysitter schedules, and meal preps.

I often felt like I was failing in all aspects of my life. Dinner was a disaster, I was constantly running late, and my work didn’t reflect my best efforts. Yet, I’ve realized that this transition has been worth it, especially since I enjoy my job. Here are six reasons why it’s perfectly okay to be a little “bad” at being a working mom:

  1. You Might Be Better Than You Think
    Ever heard of “imposter syndrome”? It’s that nagging feeling, especially among women, that you’re not as competent as everyone thinks you are. Chances are, you’re doing just fine. Keep faking it until you make it!
  2. You’re Still Bringing Home the Bacon
    As my friend Mia says, “Don’t fire yourself!” There are plenty of less-than-stellar employees out there collecting paychecks, and you are not one of them. You’ve earned your place, so keep cashing that paycheck!
  3. You’re Learning on the Job
    Even if you feel lost, you’re still picking up skills just by being in the workplace. I remember my first day back after years away; the young HR guy set me up and I panicked when he mentioned messaging Joe. It turned out that everything was pretty similar to what I already knew. You adapt and learn without even realizing it!
  4. You’re Building Social Connections
    I loved my time as a stay-at-home mom, but meeting people in the working world has broadened my horizons. Making connections is great for your mental health and your career.
  5. Action Beats Inaction
    Staying out of the workforce longer than I wanted because I was unsure of my path wasn’t helpful. Sometimes, you just have to dive in and take action, and that can help clarify what you really want to do.
  6. Perfection Isn’t the End Goal
    We all want fulfilling lives, but that doesn’t mean they have to be perfect. Good enough is, well, good enough! I’d rather embrace the chaos of a busy life than strive for an unattainable ideal.

To learn more about navigating motherhood while balancing a career, check out this informative resource on pregnancy and home insemination. And if you’re looking for the best tools, visit Make a Mom’s guide for at-home insemination kits. Remember, it’s okay to be a little messy along the way!

In summary, it’s perfectly normal to feel overwhelmed as a working mom. Embrace your imperfections, keep learning, and enjoy the ride.

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