Navigating Your Best Friend’s Move Like an Adult

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It’s funny how things change when you grow up. I’ve got this tight-knit circle of friends—those who don’t bat an eye at the state of my home, the ones who surprise me with cupcakes just because, and those who jump into action when life gets tough without even asking what they can do. I cherish this crew. I adore our “Wine Wednesdays” and those spontaneous backyard gatherings. Just popping over to say hi is one of my favorite things.

So when my close friend, Jenna, told me she and her family were relocating to another state, I didn’t take the news well. Sure, it’s for a good reason—her husband’s job keeps him on the road a lot, and she’s been juggling everything at home. I know it’s tough for them, but still. Cue the eye rolls, foot stomps, and dramatic huffs. Fine, go on and make your responsible family decision, Jenna. I’ll just sulk over here.

I’ve felt a bit lost and sad, unsure of how to cope with this situation. Grown-ups are supposed to handle these things gracefully, right? So, I thought I’d share a few tips I picked up along the way, in case you find yourself in a similar boat. You too can navigate this challenge like a pro.

1. Play the supportive friend. Tell her how excited you are for this “amazing opportunity.”
2. When she insists things won’t change because, “we don’t see each other every day anyway,” try to believe her.
3. When she shares moving truck pictures on social media, “like” them and comment, “So exciting!” Then, grab a tissue for those tears. Chocolate is highly recommended.
4. Research her new area and share info about places that “are just like” your favorite spots together. Spoiler: she’ll see through this fib, but the thought counts!
5. Tell her the new place sounds fantastic and you secretly wish you could move there too.
6. If you find yourself crying during your goodbye, just say it’s because of the outrageous interest rate on their new mortgage.
7. Give her kids big hugs, and when it gets awkward, say you’re just checking out their new laundry detergent.
8. Resist the urge to glare at her husband, who might seem like the culprit behind this upheaval. Instead, tell him you’re excited he’ll finally get to be around for the kids.
9. Put on your brave face and remember: this is harder for her than it is for you.
10. Miss her fiercely, but don’t let distance put a damper on your friendship. Download all the apps to stay connected, have your kid teach you how to use them, and pass me that chocolate, please!

I hope you never have to deal with a friend moving away, but if it does happen, you’re now equipped to handle it like a mature adult. Being grown-up is tough, but at least you can enjoy a glass of wine, not just on Wednesdays!

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In summary, while saying goodbye to a friend can be heartbreaking, it’s important to support them through their journey while also recognizing your own feelings. Embrace the change, stay connected, and remember that true friendships can withstand any distance.