Farewell to Toddlerhood: A Bittersweet Goodbye

Last week, my youngest embarked on his preschool adventure. In just two months, he’ll celebrate his third birthday. Not long ago, he transitioned to a big-boy bed and proudly donned his big-boy undies. This whirlwind of milestones signals that my days of genuinely referring to him as a toddler are winding down.

Of course, we still have years of tantrums ahead (or so my oldest insists). And simply turning three, starting school, and mastering potty training doesn’t instantly transform him into a big kid—though he seems to think so! Still, I can sense the end of this enchanting yet chaotic chapter of my life drawing near.

When my eldest entered toddlerhood, I was utterly overwhelmed. The tantrums, the endless demands, and the sheer intensity of this stage nearly sent me into a panic. However, as I near the conclusion of this journey five years later, I find myself reflecting on the beauty of this challenging yet deeply rewarding phase. Yes, the tantrums are likely to stick around, but many of those sweet toddler moments are fleeting, and I will genuinely miss them.

The Cuddles

If you haven’t been hugged by a toddler, you’ve missed out on the purest form of affection. With their delightful baby fat in all the right places, hugging a toddler is one of the most comforting experiences, whether it’s at the start of a long day or at its end.

Unconditional Love

Sure, the constant clinging can wear you down. Yes, lugging him around because he wants to be close can be tiring. And definitely, I wish he’d stop calling me “Mommy” every five seconds. However, toddler love is the purest kind—it’s tangible and genuine. Their love fills the air with a sweetness that’s hard to resist.

The Joy of Carrying Him

While I don’t always want him perched on my hip, there are moments—like when we’re in a crowded place or rushing to catch an appointment—when I treasure the connection of having him close. There’s something special about feeling his warmth as he rests his head on my shoulder.

Adorable Mispronunciations

Just last week, he asked if he could “waffle” something in my ear. Enough said. Those charming mix-ups are moments I’ll cherish.

Love Dripping from His Lips

He compliments my dress, my necklace, and my earrings with such sincerity. His “please” and “thank you” feel more genuine than from anyone else, and when he calls me “Mommy,” it’s with a sweetness that melts my heart. When he follows it up with an “I love you,” I feel completely wrapped in toddler affection.

Brutal Honesty

Most toddlers haven’t yet mastered the art of deception. When you ask them a question, you get the unfiltered truth, and it comes swiftly. While you might lose sleep over getting them to stay in bed, you won’t lose any over wondering what they really think.

A World of New Discoveries

He squeals with delight at the sight of trains or when we visit the county fair. Even though it’s a familiar place, each year feels brand new for him. The changing of leaves, the first snowflakes, and the blooming flowers are all amazing discoveries through his eyes, reminding me of the wonder in everyday life.

These endearing qualities won’t vanish overnight. He might wake up on his third birthday still trying to “waffle” in my ear and hug me tightly. But gradually, they will fade. Experience tells me that the baby fat will give way to long legs, and the intensity of his love will mature into something more sustainable. Soon enough, he’ll recall the county fair, leaving me with only the sweet memories of the joys of toddlerhood—and, of course, the tantrums.

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In summary, while the days of toddlerhood are fleeting and filled with both challenges and joys, the memories created during this time are invaluable. As I navigate this transition, I will always hold dear those sweet, squishy hugs and the unfiltered love that only a toddler can give.