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Couple Sends Invoice to Wedding Guests Who Didn’t Show Up
Weddings are no doubt costly affairs, and it’s understandable to feel frustrated when guests RSVP and then don’t show up. However, one couple in Minnesota took things to a whole new level by sending a bill to a guest who missed their wedding.
Jessica Taylor received a charge of $75.90 for the meals that had been prepared for her and her partner. Accompanying the bill was a note that read: “This cost reflects the amount paid by bride and groom for meals that were RSVPed for. A reimbursement and explanation for your absence would be appreciated.”
The reason for Jessica’s absence? Just as she was getting ready for the big day, her husband received a call from his mother saying she could no longer watch the kids. Since the invitation clearly stated “no children,” they were left with no choice but to skip the wedding. Weeks later, the couple was shocked to receive the bill. Jessica reflected, “I’m not sure what the right thing to do would have been in that situation.”
While planning a wedding can be overwhelming and expensive, event planners typically account for a few no-shows. Life happens, and it’s something everyone understands. Sending an invoice over a missed dinner seems extreme—especially when you consider how it could strain a friendship.
Sarah Collins, editor of a local wedding magazine, expressed her disbelief, stating, “There’s no reason to follow up or send a bill. It’s just not appropriate.” If Jessica’s situation was as last-minute as she describes, disturbing the couple on their wedding day to explain would be unthinkable.
If your wedding budget is tight enough that you feel the need to chase down no-show guests for money, maybe it’s time to reassess your spending plan. This approach comes off as rude and unnecessary, and it’s hard to see how any relationship could survive an interaction like that.
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In summary, sending a bill to no-show wedding guests is an extreme reaction that can damage relationships. Planning a wedding is challenging, but it’s essential to maintain perspective and compassion.