If You’re Thinking About Dating My Son

Hey there! So, let’s talk about my son and the exciting journey he’s on as he starts to date. Honestly, I’m thrilled for him. He’s worked hard to reach this point in his life, and I certainly don’t want to be that parent who gets all possessive and controlling the moment he begins to explore his own personal adventures. After all, we didn’t raise this amazing young man just to keep him on a shelf for family admiration—he deserves to share his life with someone special.

But, if I had my say, the young woman who wins his heart shouldn’t just be anyone. I think she should have her life together and not rely solely on looks, education, or status to impress. I know it might be a bit presumptuous to make a list, but what’s a mom to do? So here’s my friendly guide for any young woman interested in dating my son:

Be Yourself:

It’s important to be your authentic self. When you’re with him, let the real you shine through. Whether you’re quirky, adventurous, or laid-back, don’t feel like you need to put on a show. Just be you!

Be Honest:

Always be truthful about what matters—your feelings, preferences, and desires. Honesty is key, not just with him but with yourself.

Embrace Self-Confidence:

Remember, it’s not about how you look on the outside. You caught his eye for who you are, not your outfit or makeup. Show up comfortably, even in sweatpants if that’s what you like!

Stay Self-Aware:

Know yourself better than anyone else. Understand what makes you happy, what you struggle with, and what you’re still figuring out. This relationship should enhance your life, not define it.

Be Responsible:

Appreciate that you can pursue your goals while being with someone. If you ever feel stuck or uneasy, remember that you have the power to change your situation. Your happiness is important!

Keep It Realistic:

You have your whole life ahead of you, so don’t make this relationship your everything. Enjoy the moments, but also remember to keep space for your friends and interests.

Practice Patience:

Both of you are learning and growing. There’s no perfect guide for relationships, and you’ll both stumble sometimes. Just know it’s all part of the journey.

I wish someone had shared this advice with me when I started dating. It’s easy to get wrapped up in a relationship and forget about your own identity. Don’t lose sight of who you are for the sake of someone else—you’re too valuable for that. And trust me, the people who love you will agree. They adore you for who you are, just like my son does.

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In summary, dating my son is a wonderful opportunity, but it comes with the responsibility of being true to yourself and maintaining your individuality. You’re precious, and that’s something worth celebrating!