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School Lockdown Drills and My Autistic Son
Every month, like clockwork, I get a text from my son’s school letting me know they just conducted their monthly lockdown drill. The message reassures me that it’s just a drill and that I shouldn’t worry. But honestly, I can’t help but feel concerned. This is yet another reminder of how deeply my son’s autism affects his daily life.
I can’t shake the anxiety that comes with the thought of him not being safe during a lockdown. You see, while teachers are busy ushering students into closets or bathrooms, my son is likely to be chatting away. His autism, mixed with a touch of innocence, leads him to believe they’re playing a game of hide-and-seek or perhaps celebrating a surprise party. He’ll be there, loud-whispering for everyone to “be quiet!” without realizing that he, too, needs to be silent for his own safety and for the safety of those around him.
It breaks my heart to think that this is part of his school experience. The thought that his communication challenges might pose a safety risk is something I truly despise. If he makes any noise, it could endanger everyone hiding with him. And while I know he wouldn’t intend to put anyone in harm’s way, it’s a stark reality that I can’t ignore.
When his teacher first mentioned this, I was devastated. She seemed unfazed, but I quickly learned that he’s not alone in his behavior. Many children struggle to grasp the seriousness of the situation, and my son just doesn’t understand that this drill is about keeping him safe. They assured me it’s a skill they would work on, but part of me feels frustrated that this is even a concern we have to face. Isn’t it enough that we have our hands full already?
I fervently hope that I never have to confront this reality, but with that monthly text, my mind can’t help but go there.
I don’t have any answers or solutions to offer, just a heavier load that comes with autism—one that you might not consider until you find yourself in the midst of it.
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In summary, the reality of lockdown drills adds yet another layer of complexity to raising a child with autism. The concern for his safety during these drills weighs heavily on my heart, and it’s a situation that many parents may not realize exists until they are faced with it themselves.