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Let’s Celebrate the Aunts
As the only child of divorced parents, I’ve often felt a bit adrift in this vast world. But then I remember to widen my circle, and there they are—my aunts. From Nebraska to Texas, these remarkable women are quietly and diligently supporting the foundation of my life, often without me even realizing it.
Whenever I need a little comfort, I know I can find one of my aunts doing something delightful: cheering for the Huskers, inviting me to play games on Facebook, taking Grandma grocery shopping, enjoying margaritas with friends, or even stretching out with some yoga in their living rooms.
Though none of them live nearby, their presence is an essential part of who I am. Just imagining them together like a Midwestern tribe brings me immense joy and a sense of belonging.
My aunts are deeply woven into my fondest memories. I still recall being 5 years old, twirling around with an aunt at a wedding while Bob Seger played. Then there was the time at 12 when another aunt eagerly tried to remember the exact date her body changed so I could compare notes (spoiler: I never caught up!). I see them in my mind doing Jane Fonda workouts, whipping up holiday feasts, and managing the chaos of all the cousins.
As I’ve grown, I’ve drawn strength from witnessing how my aunts have faced their own battles. When I struggled to maintain control in my classroom during my first teaching year, one aunt opened up about her own challenges, sharing how she’d often talk herself out of tears while driving to work. Another aunt bravely spoke about her fight with postpartum depression when I was having difficulties after my son was born. Their resilience has shown me that I too can persevere.
My aunts provide unwavering support, cheering me on from afar as they admire pictures of my kids and celebrate my achievements, despite some tough times I’ve gone through.
Now, as an aunt myself, I’m eager to embrace this role wholeheartedly. I imagine taking my niece to Disney on Ice, painting her nails, and discussing everything from boyfriends to the latest fashion trends. I want to be her safe space when she’s navigating those tricky teenage years, even if she sometimes acts out.
With my nephew, I look forward to building towers with Duplos, cheering him on at sports events, and enjoying late-night food binges as he begins to share his secret teenage life with me. I want them to feel my presence even from a distance, just like my aunts have done for me—working quietly in the background.
The role of an aunt often goes unrecognized, but it’s so vital. Aunts bring a fresh perspective, offering a different kind of nurturing that complements what mothers provide. They’re the fun ones who break up the strictness of parenting, the comforting voices amidst the chaos.
So here’s to all the aunts out there, whether they’re nearby or miles away. They add that extra layer of love and balance to our lives.
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In summary, let’s take a moment to appreciate the incredible aunts in our lives—they’re a unique blessing that deserves celebration.