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To Those Observing My Parenting, Please Have Some Understanding
We’ve all been there—out in public with our little ones on one of those challenging days. You know the kind: tears, tantrums, and a wild burst of energy that seems to draw everyone’s attention. In those moments, it can feel like you’re under a spotlight. But here’s the truth: most people are too wrapped up in their own lives to even notice. I often need to remind myself that to those around me, I’m just another parent navigating a tough day, and my child is simply having a moment.
To the folks who give those judgmental looks—those glances that seem to say, “What now?” when my child decides to sprint away—let me ask for a little kindness. Please choose compassion, or just look away. Sure, you may catch a glimpse of my son dashing through the café, cookie in hand, while I’m hurrying after him, hair flying and trying to keep my cool. But what you see is just a fleeting moment in a much bigger story.
If you could peek back just a moment before, you’d see my son joyfully playing with a friend, giggling after a delightful lunch. You wouldn’t know how proud I am of his social skills or that he enjoyed a special treat for using the potty for the first time that morning. You missed the day prior when he held my hand at the art museum, eyes wide with wonder as he took in the masterpiece around him. You weren’t there to see him dance to live music, his small body moving joyfully, or the way he cuddled up to me when it was time to go, burying his face in my shoulder, humming along.
My son is so much more than just that chaotic moment. I wish he hadn’t caused a scene in the café, and I often wish I had handled it better. While I realize most onlookers don’t care to know the full story, I still feel the urge to defend him against those judging eyes. I want you to see him for who he really is—a bright, funny, and affectionate little guy with a zest for life.
To All the Parents Out There
When you find yourself in a tough spot, remember to give it your best shot, then move on. Instead of replaying the event and feeling defeated, rewind to a beautiful moment with your child. Focus on the love and creativity you bring to parenting, and remember that your little one is a unique and wonderful individual.
And to my friend, Mia, at the art museum: yes, your runaway stroller almost bumped into a priceless piece of art, and yes, you were preoccupied with your spirited child. But don’t be too hard on yourself. Just moments before, you were sharing a peaceful experience with your curious kiddo, marveling at the vibrant colors all around.
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In Summary
Let’s approach each other—with all our messy, chaotic moments—with understanding. Parenting is a journey filled with ups and downs, and we’re all in this together.