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My Partner’s Postpartum Body Is Stunning
When it comes to my partner’s body after giving birth, I’ve got to admit, I didn’t say a word about it. Why? Because honestly, her postpartum body is really none of my business. Sure, I’m her partner, but when it comes to opinions that matter, my thoughts on her postpartum changes rank somewhere between a child critiquing modern art and my toddler’s insistence on one more bedtime story.
Let’s not forget, pregnancy isn’t a solo journey; I played a direct role in those changes. When we decided to have a baby, we were signing up for a wild ride. Sure, we might have envisioned our child as a future astronaut or the next great leader, but we were also saying, “Hey, I’d like you to carry our child for nine months, knowing full well that this will cause some significant shifts in your body, mind, and spirit. Plus, you’ll be a human milk factory with a side of extra weight!”
And let’s be real, the challenges multiply with each pregnancy. We have two kids, but my partner has been pregnant four times, which totals nearly two years of morning sickness, cravings (seriously, pineapple and curly fries were on the menu), and the aftermath of childbirth.
Yes, her body has changed, but you know what? She’s still the same incredible, fiery person I fell in love with. As for me, I’ve changed too. When we got married, I was at my peak fitness—running and lifting weights. Now, my main workout involves zooming around the living room with my daughter or pretending to be a character from her favorite movie while trying to keep up with my three-year-old.
The idea of critiquing my partner’s body after pregnancy feels incredibly selfish and shortsighted. I mean, do we really look at our friends who face challenges like surgery or illness and worry about their appearance? No! We celebrate their resilience and recovery. The difference with pregnancy is that not only does my partner come through it, but she also brings our child into the world.
That child is part of our family, and when I look at my partner, I see that bond. I love her postpartum body because it represents the journey we undertook together. Plus, after all she’s endured, she still chooses to share a bed with me!
For more insights on the beautiful journey of pregnancy, check out this excellent resource from the CDC. And if you’re considering how to boost your fertility, you can find some solid advice over at Make a Mom. Also, for a deeper dive into home insemination, you can read more here.
In summary, my partner’s postpartum body is a testament to her strength and the love we share as a family. It’s a beautiful reminder of the journey we embarked on together, and I wouldn’t change a thing.