Does Any of This Even Matter?

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I’ve always been one to ponder deeply about life. Some might call it a flaw, while others see it as a strength. For me, it often feels like anxiety or overthinking—terms I use interchangeably because they all seem to capture the essence of this quirk.

Recently, I found myself questioning whether anything I do truly matters.

• Did the time I spent playing at the park with my kids really matter?
• Did the encouraging words I shared with my friend on the phone make a difference?
• Do the heaps of clean laundry piled in baskets have any significance?
• Do my latest blog posts hold any value?
• Will the chapters I’ve poured my heart into for my upcoming book matter to anyone?
• And if I decide to return to my work as a counselor, will it make an impact?

Yes, it all matters. Every little thing I do or don’t do holds weight. Not in a dramatic, “my life will crumble if I don’t clean the house before guests arrive” kind of way, but in a sense that I choose to make it matter.

It matters that I skipped doing the dishes this morning because I was busy cuddling my sick toddler. That moment together was precious, and it mattered because he is my world. The dishes might pile up, but they matter too because my son does.

It matters that I vacuumed last night—not just for a spotless home, but because the act itself helped calm my mind. Engaging in that repetitive motion allowed me to sort through the chaos swirling in my head. That mattered because I matter.

Writing an honest article about my struggles with addiction and the hope I found when reaching out for help mattered. It was significant because it provided encouragement to someone who felt lost. My words could inspire another to seek help, and that matters deeply because their life is important.

Binge-watching Netflix for an entire day last weekend also mattered. It was a necessary break for my body, which had been pushed to its limits. Enjoying a little distraction while I recuperated was essential because self-care matters.

I regret yelling at my 5-year-old last week. It was a loud and harsh outburst that made me question myself. But it mattered because it reminded me of my imperfections as a parent, and it pushed me to find healthier ways to express my frustration. My flaws are part of my humanity, and that’s important for him to see.

What mattered just as much was the apology I gave him shortly after. Explaining that even though I lost my temper, my love for him remained unchanged was crucial for our relationship. His feelings mattered, and I needed him to know that.

It matters when my husband leaves his socks on the floor for the millionth time. It matters that I ask him to pick them up. I may get annoyed by these small things, but they remind me that I have a loving partner who is still here, unlike my best friend who lost her husband. Those dirty socks matter because his presence in my life matters.

The chaos of my kids—drawing on walls, wrestling, and making a mess—matters too. They are just children having fun, and their joy is a beautiful part of their childhood.

It matters that my three boys may fight often but are each other’s best friends. Their late-night chats and playful sneaking around may drive me nuts, but those moments signify the bond they share and that matters a great deal.

In the grand scheme of things, I matter, you matter, and we all matter. Our actions and inactions have significance. The time we spend matters. The little things—like laundry and dishes—may seem trivial, but they are part of a larger tapestry of life.

Living fully and embracing every moment is what truly matters.

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Summary

Every aspect of life, from the mundane tasks to the heartfelt moments, carries significance. Whether it’s spending time with loved ones, tackling household chores, or learning from our mistakes, everything contributes to our journey. Embracing these moments enriches our lives and reminds us that we all matter.