You know what’s a great environment for a toddler? A loud rock concert at 10 p.m.—said no sensible parent ever! This past weekend, a couple of parents decided to make a questionable choice by bringing their little one to a late-night performance by the band, The Night Owls, and even set him on stage so he could “see better.”
The story goes like this: the parents were called out by the lead singer, Lily, who jokingly expressed her disbelief at the sight of a toddler at such a raucous show. Things took a turn when they claimed they were asked to leave because they were breastfeeding, igniting a debate online about breastfeeding shaming.
Now, let’s be real: it’s not okay to place anything on a stage during a live performance—be it drinks, phones, or toddlers. Live shows are typically loud, and it’s hard to imagine a small child being in such close proximity to amplifiers and speakers. The Night Owls are known for their electric sound, and a toddler likely shouldn’t be that close to the action.
But as with most stories, there are two sides. The band’s frontwoman might have been taken aback to see a toddler so close during a late-night gig and may have made a few light-hearted comments that made the parents feel uncomfortable. The mom claimed they had been there for hours, even through the opening act, but that doesn’t necessarily justify the decision to have a child on stage at a late hour. The opening act, which the toddler apparently enjoyed, didn’t mention anything about breastfeeding, by the way.
While it’s crucial to support mothers who are shamed for breastfeeding, this doesn’t seem like a clear-cut case of that. The mom involved appears to be missing the point about bringing a toddler to a late-night concert.
People have jumped in to defend the band, expressing their disappointment that a natural act like breastfeeding was turned into a public controversy. Comments ranged from criticism of the parents’ judgment to calls for more understanding of concert etiquette. One commenter emphasized that it doesn’t matter how many kids you’re feeding; placing your child on stage at a concert is simply not appropriate.
There’s nothing wrong with introducing kids to live music; in fact, it can be a fantastic experience. But common sense is essential. Just because an event is labeled “all ages” doesn’t mean it’s suitable for toddlers at 10 p.m.
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In summary, while exposing your child to live music can be a rewarding experience, it’s important to consider the timing and environment. Late-night rock concerts may not be the best choice for toddlers.