Playing Kids’ Sports By My Own Rules

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I’m not really into sports. Honestly, I couldn’t care less about standings, upcoming matches, or the outcome of my kid’s game at this very moment. My heart belongs to the world of show choir, not the field.

Don’t get me wrong; I absolutely care about how my kids perform during their activities. Some might say I’m a bit of a “helicopter parent” or overly involved, but what I focus on is different from what many other parents seem to prioritize.

My concern isn’t whether my kids are star athletes or if sports can land them scholarships or fame. I’m more invested in shaping them into kind, respectful individuals who navigate life while being considerate of others. That’s why, when it comes to sports, we have our own set of rules to live by.

Our Playbook for Sports

1. Show Up: You wanted to join this team, so we’re all in it together. We’re investing time and money, so no complaints about practices or games. Your teammates and coaches are counting on you, so let’s get in the car and not be late.
2. Play Every Play: Whether you’re ahead or behind, don’t slack off. The game continues until the whistle blows, so give it your all until the end.
3. Be a Good Sport: If you come back from a play feeling frustrated, keep it together and don’t let anger take over. If you can’t control yourself, you might just find yourself heading straight to the car.
4. No Blaming: Tough games happen, but if you find yourself ranting about officials or opponents on the way home, I’m going to suggest that maybe team sports aren’t for you. If that’s the case, perhaps consider something solo, like ultra-marathon running.
5. Be Kind: I might miss your big moment, but I notice when you cheer for others or offer compliments. That’s the stuff I want to hear about on the ride home—the highlights of being a good teammate.
6. Thank the Coach: Regardless of how much time you spent on the bench or any mistakes made, always thank your coach at the end of the game. They deal with a lot and deserve our gratitude.
7. Clean Up: It doesn’t matter whose drink container it is; pick it up.
8. Thank Your Parents: We’re enduring the elements and supporting you through this whole journey. A simple “thank you” goes a long way in letting us know you appreciate it.

So there you have it—our playbook for sports. While I might not be the biggest sports fan, I love seeing my kids grow into compassionate individuals. If you’re interested in learning more about home insemination, check out this informative post on intracervical insemination, or for more tips on home kits, visit Make a Mom. And if you’re looking for expert advice on fertility, the Fertility Center at Johns Hopkins is a great resource.

In summary, my focus is on shaping my kids into good people who understand the importance of sportsmanship and kindness, rather than just winning games.