Why I’m More Productive as a Mom

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There’s a saying that goes, “If you want something done, ask a busy person.” I often think, if you want something accomplished, just ask a mom because we are the ultimate multitaskers. Before having kids, my schedule was packed with free time—long hours, entire weekends, and vacations that seemed to stretch on forever. Yet, I frequently grumbled about being too busy to squeeze in a workout or prepare a healthy meal.

I used to believe all the tales about how exhausting parenthood would be—no sleep, quick meals of chicken nuggets, and the never-ending struggle to shed the baby weight with no time for myself. While there’s some truth to those stories—yes, those early months can be sleep-deprived, and carving out gym time can feel impossible—I’ve discovered that I’m actually more productive now than I ever was before kids.

For starters, I’ve realized that I don’t need large chunks of time to accomplish tasks. If I have a spare five minutes, I’ll tackle the dishes, practice guitar scales, or respond to work emails. Back in my 20s, I thought it was pointless to start anything unless I had hours to devote to it, leading to wasted time on trivial activities like scrolling through social media or, honestly, inspecting my pores. Nowadays, I’ve streamlined my morning routine to just 15 minutes. Sure, I might not look as polished, but that extra time allows me to catch a few more Zs, spend quality moments with my kids, or actually get some work done.

Additionally, I’m much more efficient while at work, practicing music, or even tackling household chores. I begin each day with a list of things to do and prioritize the most pressing tasks. In my pre-kid days, I’d often feel overwhelmed by my to-do list, procrastinating and feeling guilty about it, while binge-watching Netflix instead. That was a bizarre cycle of self-inflicted pressure.

Now that I’m a mom, my to-do list is packed with urgent items (doctor appointments, fixing leaks), leaving little room for unnecessary worry. I don’t put off tedious tasks like dealing with insurance companies; I handle them because they need to be done, and I know if I delay, they’ll just haunt me the following day. There’s far less emotional clutter.

I also no longer waste time on things that don’t spark joy for me, like attending lackluster social events or spending time with people who don’t excite me. Becoming a parent quickly shifts your perspective on what’s truly important. As Jenna writes in her insightful piece, “Want to Be Better at Your Job? Have a Kid,” when your leisure time is slashed, you only have a few fleeting moments to enjoy things you genuinely love. You start to appreciate those precious moments of free time like never before.

Sure, I still struggle to exercise regularly and don’t cook as much as I should, but that could be more about my choices than a lack of time. As a mom, I find myself doing chores I might not enjoy, like tackling a mountain of laundry, but the underlying motivation—I’m caring for my family—makes those tasks feel more significant and harder to procrastinate. You become more productive because almost everything you do serves your family’s needs. And when you do get a moment for yourself, you make it count in the best way possible.

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Summary

In summary, being a mom has transformed my productivity in ways I never expected. I’ve learned to maximize my time, prioritize essential tasks, and appreciate the fleeting moments of free time. Parenting has shifted my focus toward what truly matters, making every chore feel purposeful and rewarding.