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5 Things Your Kids Just Don’t Give a Toss About
After spending countless hours with kids, you start to pick up on a lot of their quirks. It’s truly eye-opening. One of the most surprising realizations I’ve had is how little empathy they sometimes show. Apparently, that’s part of my job—to teach them that the world extends beyond their little bubble. They’re the most adorable and innocent beings I know, yet there are moments when it feels like they just don’t care.
Let me break it down for you.
- They Don’t Care If You’re Exhausted
From the moment they arrive, babies keep their weary parents awake at all hours. You might find yourself dozing off against the crib or on the couch, but does that little bundle of joy care? Not even a tiny bit! As they grow, you might catch a break with a full night’s sleep—maybe. But if you’ve had a rough night because of a sick child, don’t expect sympathy. They’ll still want breakfast and that walk around the block, blissfully unaware of your caffeine-fueled struggle. And when they come to your bedside to tell you a “quiet” secret about a woodpecker? Yeah, good luck getting any rest. - They Don’t Care If You’re Grimy
Every morning, I think, “Today, I’ll grab a quick shower before the kids wake up.” Spoiler alert: it rarely happens. Once they’re up, privacy is out the window. I could be in my pajamas, looking like I just trekked through a jungle, but they don’t care! They’ll still want to climb on you, ask you for snacks, or demand you turn on their favorite show—right in your personal space. - They Don’t Care If You’re Burdened
Picture this: you’ve just returned from a mega shopping trip, and your cart is overflowing. You’re balancing an infant car seat, holding hands with your toddler, and steering the cart like a pro. But then your child asks you to carry their Gatorade. Seriously?! After spending a fortune at the store, that’s what they need? Sometimes, I have to remind them that I’m juggling a baby and multiple bags, but they just smile and carry on with their day. Must be nice, huh? - They Don’t Care If You’re Behind Schedule
Imagine this chaos: you’ve finally strapped the baby into the car seat while instructing the others to find their shoes. One child can never find theirs, and the other insists on wearing the pair that requires a treasure hunt for matching socks. After spending what seems like an eternity getting everyone ready, you realize you’re late. But guess what? They have no concept of time! They only rush for cupcakes or playdates. When it’s something important for you? They just don’t get it. - They Don’t Care About the Little Things
Now for the sentimental part. It’s easy to get frustrated with the chaos of parenting. But thankfully, our kids don’t mind if we’re messy, if the house is a disaster, or if we had a rough day. They love us unconditionally. So, while they might be little tornadoes of stress, we can take comfort in their beautiful indifference to our imperfections. After all, even if they drive us up the wall, they remind us that we are enough.
If you’re looking for more insights into parenting and home insemination, you can check out some excellent resources like March of Dimes or explore options at Cryobaby. And don’t forget to visit this other post for more information on this topic!
Summary
In parenting, you quickly learn that children often lack awareness of your struggles. They don’t care if you’re tired, dirty, burdened, or running late. However, amidst the chaos, they love you deeply and don’t judge your imperfections. Embrace their carefree nature, and remember that their love is what truly matters.