To the Parents Who Do Their Kids’ Homework

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Let’s be real for a moment. We all know that little Timmy didn’t craft that elaborate diorama all on his own, so there’s no need to pretend otherwise. And that slick poster for the third-grade election—come on! You do realize that Timmy was meant to use his own supplies and creativity during class, right?

It must be tough for teachers to assess assignments when they suspect the parents are the real masterminds behind the work. I’d wager they can spot it within seconds—whether a child has truly contributed or merely scribbled their name. These educators know our kids well; they see their abilities every single day. So, what makes some parents think they can bypass that?

Honestly, I don’t understand why some parents choose to do their child’s homework. Isn’t the purpose of school to help our kids become independent thinkers? It’s a space for them to explore their intellect and develop skills. How is that possible if you’re doing everything for them?

When I was in elementary school, I had a science project about the wheel and axle. That day, my dad decided to swoop in and help, racing to the hardware store for supplies. We ended up in his workshop, and although I was thrilled to get his attention, I soon realized he had taken over. Sure, I got an A+ on my project, but all I really learned was how controlling he could be. That project is still hanging in his workshop today.

Trying to help by taking control often backfires. Kids are supposed to make mistakes and learn from them. They may procrastinate and argue about homework, but ultimately, it’s their responsibility to complete it. I get that parents want to see their children succeed, but handing them the answers isn’t a win—it’s just sad.

When you leave the hospital after having your baby, there’s so much pride in that moment. In their first year, everything they do requires your gentle guidance and unconditional love. But as they grow, they need you less, which can be tough to accept. It’s natural to want to help them finish their sentences or solve their math problems, but how does that teach them to be self-sufficient?

My daughter is at an amazing school with remarkable goals. We chose this place for its small class sizes and innovative curriculum, and we are proud to be part of their mission. However, I often feel anxious when I see other parents still taking the wheel. It makes me want to shake them and remind them it’s time to step back.

In one hallway, there’s a mirror wall where teachers write inspirational quotes. At the start of the year, one teacher wrote, “The sky is the limit,” and a student quickly replied, “Why do I need a limit?” When you challenge a child’s abilities, you realize that the only limits are the ones we impose at home. It might be time for a new approach.

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In summary, while the desire to help our children is natural, doing their work for them undermines their growth and independence. Let’s allow them the space to learn and thrive on their own.