Nursing Your One-Year-Old: Week 39 Insights

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Breastfeeding is a common practice that has gained social acceptance, and it’s wonderful to see more moms nursing in public without fear. However, if you’re nursing a toddler, you might occasionally face those judgmental looks from strangers—ugh, right? As your little one grows and begins to explore a wider range of foods, it’s a good time to establish some nursing etiquette. This way, you can avoid those moments when your toddler pulls your shirt down in the middle of a store.

The good news? Your toddler is at an age where they can understand boundaries—sometimes! Try explaining that nursing happens at specific times, such as before naps or at bedtime. If they ask to nurse at other times, gently remind them: “Nursing is only for sleepy time, remember?” Distracting them with a book or a snack can also help. Over time, they’ll start to grasp the idea that nursing has its place and won’t insist quite as much when you’re out and about.

At this stage, it’s no surprise that toddlers are little bundles of energy. You might find yourself witnessing what could be called “nursing gymnastics,” as they wriggle and squirm during feeding time. If things get too chaotic, it’s perfectly okay to gently remove your child from your lap and explain that nursing is a time for cuddling and stillness. With consistency, they’ll learn that wiggling around—along with any hair-pulling or biting—means the session ends. (Trust me, I’ve been there with the exclamations like “MY BOOBS ARE NOT MADE OF SILLY PUTTY!”)

A friendly tip: Toddlers can seem like they think every time you sit down is an open invitation for a snack. It’s okay to set limits, even if it leads to a few tears! Just let them know you understand their feelings and offer comfort in other ways, like a warm hug.

If you want to dive deeper into this topic, check out this insightful article on why breastfeeding older children can be beneficial. Also, for more helpful resources about pregnancy and home insemination, visit Cleveland Clinic’s page on intrauterine insemination.

Summary:

Nursing your one-year-old can come with its challenges, especially as they grow and explore. Establishing boundaries around nursing times can help create a more peaceful experience for both of you. Remember, it’s okay to say no sometimes and find alternative ways to comfort your little one.