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Why Moms Should Let Go of the Guilt About Being Late
You’ve tried every strategy imaginable. You’ve laid out outfits the night before, organized bags, purses, and snacks for a smooth exit. You’ve even showered the evening before and set your alarm to get up before the kids. You’ve done everything you can think of to arrive on time—just once.
But let’s face it: you might not be the “On Time Mom.” Instead, you’re the one in the driveway, texting, “Running late! Sorry, see you soon.” And that’s perfectly fine. Take a breath and ditch the guilt. Trust me, most of us are right there with you. We know how the last-minute scramble can easily turn into an hour-long ordeal.
I can relate. I’ve always been late, but it’s not due to genetics or laziness. Before kids, I was the person who believed in showing up 15 minutes early. Aside from the occasional indecision about what to wear, I was reliable. But then I had kids, and my internal clock went haywire.
Someone really should have warned us moms about that! After having my kids, I could leave the house fully prepared and still somehow end up running late. From unexpected car troubles to kids hiding my keys in strange places, I went from punctual to perpetually late.
Just the other day, I woke up to a kitchen overrun by fruit flies. I was determined to ignore it until after my appointment, but as I tried to make my way to the door, I caught a whiff of something unpleasant. Turns out, I discovered a ten-pound bag of rotting potatoes! After a frantic clean-up, I was 30 minutes late. What else could I do? If anyone has tips on how to handle that better, please share!
This sort of chaos is just a part of mom life. Maybe your partner is doing yoga poses in the driveway looking for his wallet, which is, of course, just out of reach. Or perhaps a neighbor stops you to chat about your dog’s latest antics.
You know what? It’s not our fault. I’m officially declaring the end of the “Running Late Mom Guilt Trip.” We need to recognize why moms are often late: because we care. We want our kids to look decent, to contribute something nice to gatherings, and to have a semi-clean house to return to—fruit fly free, please!
There’s just never enough time, so let’s give ourselves a break. We’re not lounging around all day; we’re in a constant rush to get to the next thing. I want to say what every late mom feels: “I’m really sorry, but I’m trying! Life just keeps getting in the way.”
Rest assured, we’ll make it to our destination—eventually. In the meantime, you can expect a text from us saying, “On my way!! :-)”
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Summary
Moms often find themselves running late due to the chaos of daily life, despite their best efforts to be punctual. Instead of feeling guilty, it’s important to acknowledge that moms care deeply and are doing their best under challenging circumstances. Embracing a supportive understanding of the “Running Late Mom” can help ease the pressure and foster empathy among fellow parents.