Five Mistakes Breastfeeding Advocates Should Avoid

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Hey there, fellow parenting enthusiasts! As someone who truly believes in the benefits of breastfeeding, I’ve noticed a few common pitfalls that advocates can fall into. While I grew up with a wealth of breastfeeding knowledge thanks to my mom, a dedicated lactation consultant, I’ve also seen how certain behaviors can turn people away from the cause. If we want to create a supportive environment for mothers and normalize breastfeeding, let’s make sure our advocacy is welcoming and constructive. Here are five things to keep in mind:

1. Argue with Moms Who Struggled to Breastfeed
   It’s essential to recognize that not every mom can breastfeed. While the majority can, there are valid medical and personal reasons why some may not be able to. Instead of debating or criticizing their choices, offer support and understanding. If they ask for advice for the future, share ideas then, but avoid revisiting their past experiences in a negative light.
2. Label Formula as Toxic
   Let’s be real: formula isn’t poison. While breastmilk is indeed the best option for babies, formula can be a lifesaver for those who cannot access breastmilk. It’s crucial to acknowledge that many parents rely on formula for various reasons. We can celebrate the benefits of breastmilk without demonizing formula.
3. Assume Non-Breastfeeding Moms Are Uninformed
   Some moms who choose not to breastfeed are well aware of the facts but make different choices based on personal circumstances. It’s important to provide information when asked, but avoid overwhelming them with facts as a method of persuasion. Respect their decisions and personal situations, even if they may not align with the breastfeeding narrative.
4. Dismiss Those Who Feel Uncomfortable with Breastfeeding
   While it’s great to advocate for breastfeeding in public, it’s also important to understand that some people may feel uneasy about it. Instead of condemning their feelings, try to engage in a dialogue. Many of these discomforts stem from societal norms that haven’t normalized breastfeeding. A little empathy can go a long way in creating a more accepting atmosphere for breastfeeding.
5. Let Passion Turn into Snark
   It’s easy to slip into sarcasm when you’re passionate about a topic, but snarky comments rarely change minds. Instead of pushing people away, let’s focus on constructive conversations that invite others into the discussion. Remember, our goal is to empower and encourage, not to alienate those who are not yet on board.

Advocacy is all about intention. We need to ask ourselves if our comments and actions are genuinely helping to promote breastfeeding. By being supportive and understanding, we can create a welcoming environment that encourages mothers to feel confident in their choices.

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Summary

Being a breastfeeding advocate means being aware of how we communicate. By avoiding arguments with moms who choose not to breastfeed, respecting their choices, and engaging with empathy, we can create a supportive community. Let’s focus on sharing knowledge in a kind manner and work together to normalize breastfeeding for everyone.