To all the parents who have experienced the unimaginable pain of losing a child to gun violence:
I want to take a moment to express that saying “I’m sorry” feels inadequate. It’s a phrase that doesn’t come close to healing the wounds you carry. Sorry won’t mend your heart, won’t wipe away your tears, and certainly won’t bring your precious children back.
I remember the sorrow I felt on that tragic day in December 2012 when the Newtown shooting occurred. Since then, my heart has ached for all of you who have had to endure such a profound loss. Yet, despite the outpouring of sympathy, the reality is that the violence hasn’t ceased; in fact, it seems to be escalating.
In my desire to honor those lost, I created a Facebook community called “Twenty Six Seeds of Love for Newtown” shortly after the tragedy. I’ve been sharing my feelings there, hoping to offer some comfort. However, I realize that no amount of online support can ever truly suffice.
Sorry is often just a way for us to cope with our own discomfort, and while it may sound kind, it fails to change the harsh reality. It doesn’t alter the outcomes in places like San Bernardino, Roseburg, or Aurora.
I regret that we, as a society, have not done more to address these preventable injustices. You are facing a nightmare that no parent should have to endure, and it’s unfair that you have to bear this alone. Many may move on from the horror of these events, but your pain is a constant in your life.
As a parent, I can no longer mindlessly leave the TV on while my children are at home, fearing they might hear about the next school shooting. Your losses are always on my mind.
I’ve come to realize that it’s not about taking sides in the gun debate; it’s about prioritizing humanity and advocating for fewer lives lost to gun violence. I genuinely care about you and the grief you bear. I fervently hope to see an end to this cycle of violence. Children should be playing joyfully, not living in fear.
We must all unite and do whatever it takes to protect the lives of our children and each other. The time has arrived to set aside differences and focus on what truly matters—our shared humanity and the well-being of future generations.
So, instead of offering yet another “I’m sorry,” I wish you the peace you can find. If there is any way I can assist you, please let me know. I hope we can all summon the courage to end this suffering together.
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Summary
This heartfelt message reflects on the deep pain of parents who have lost children to gun violence, expressing that mere apologies are insufficient. It acknowledges the ongoing struggles and calls for unity in advocating for a world where children can grow up free from fear and violence.