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3 Ways Having a Dog Prepares You for Parenthood
You read that right! Before you roll your eyes and think I’ve lost my mind, let me explain. I fully recognize that dogs and babies are two completely different creatures. In fact, I have both—a furry friend and a tiny human. While my affection for my little one is immeasurable, there’s a solid reason many couples choose to get a dog before diving into the wild world of parenting.
Some folks believe that caring for a dog helps sharpen their nurturing skills, while others think that navigating the challenges of puppy training might give them a taste of those sleepless nights with a baby (although trust me, it won’t prepare you for everything). Plus, some simply want a bit of co-parenting practice before they sign up for the lifelong commitment of raising a child. So, while a dog won’t help with diaper duties, they can teach us some valuable lessons for when baby time rolls around.
1. They Rely on You for Everything
Your pup depends on you for, well, everything—keeping them alive being the top priority. Unfortunately, neither dogs nor kids come with a user manual (which is a shame because I’d buy a stack for sure). Caring for a living creature is more complex than it seems, and having a dog makes you appreciate this reality. Whether it’s dealing with an unexpected mess or helping them through a tough moment, these experiences will help develop your instincts for when that baby arrives.
Both dogs and kids require socialization, medical attention, hygiene, balanced nutrition, and lots of love. So, treat your furry friend well; it might just help your future child ace their high school exams!
2. They Teach You to Embrace the Chaos
Babies seem to have a knack for turning your life upside down. If there’s a way to disrupt your peaceful moment, they’ll find it. Want to wear white for the first time since giving birth? Your baby will find a way to make it a disaster. Having a dog can help you embrace this chaos, one mess at a time.
Your house will never be as tidy as it was before you got a dog, and that’s okay! Learning to adapt to the whirlwind of puppy antics prepares you for the delightful chaos that comes with kids. Whether it’s racing to fix dinner or managing a dog that’s decided to redecorate the couch, these moments teach you patience and teamwork with your partner. You’ll recall those puppy days when you’re up at odd hours with your newborn, knowing you’ve tackled chaos before.
3. They Show You How to Prioritize Others
From splurging on their favorite snacks to giving up your cozy spot on the couch, we often make sacrifices for our dogs. I once laid my coat over a puddle for my pup, only to use that same coat to wrap my baby on a flight years later. These are the little sacrifices we make out of love, and they set the stage for parenthood.
When you genuinely care about someone (or something), those sacrifices transform from chores into privileges. Learning to put another’s needs before your own is a fundamental part of being a parent. Would I still rock my baby to sleep until my arms felt like jelly, even without my dog experience? Absolutely. But having a dog first taught me the joys and challenges of nurturing, and for that, I’m forever grateful.
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In summary, having a dog can prepare you for the adventure of parenthood by teaching you responsibility, resilience amidst chaos, and the importance of putting others first. Embracing these lessons will help you navigate the beautiful mess that is raising a child.