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Why Our Best Is Enough
Let’s be honest for a moment: I am feeling completely swamped. Earlier today, while trying to catch my breath through my tears, I truly believed I was the worst mom in the world. I reached out to my husband and my sister for reassurance, but deep down, I wanted to shout, “You don’t get it! I’m really struggling!”
Ever had that feeling? Like everyone else thinks you’re nailing it while you’re just trying not to drown? The weight of shaping another person’s life is immense. The expectations to raise happy, successful kids are even tougher in today’s world, where advice is just a Google search away. Social media inundates us with parenting tips that can feel contradictory at best.
We’re told to be nurturing yet firm, to vaccinate but also to question vaccines, to avoid yelling and yet not be overly permissive. There’s constant pressure to serve organic meals, limit screen time, encourage outdoor play while monitoring the temperature, and ensure our kids are independent without leaving them feeling abandoned. The conflicting messages can be utterly exhausting.
How can we possibly measure up to this ideal of perfect parenting? We can’t, and I’ve found some comfort in that realization. At the end of the day, we all get a big fat F in parenting. But that F doesn’t mean “failure”—it stands for “future.”
We are shaping the future of parenting through our experiences, both good and bad, just like our parents did for us. The mere fact that we care enough to worry shows that we are doing our best, and that is more than enough. I’m a good enough mom, and so are you.
Our unique approaches to parenting create a vibrant environment for our children to grow. Our differences help mold them into individuals who understand and appreciate the world around them. So let’s take it easy on ourselves and each other. When someone tells us we’re doing a good job, let’s embrace that affirmation.
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Summary
Parenting comes with enormous pressures and conflicting advice, which can leave us feeling inadequate. However, it’s essential to recognize that wanting to do our best is what truly matters. We’re all navigating this journey together, and what we bring to the table makes a meaningful impact on our children’s lives. Let’s celebrate our efforts and believe in the goodness we offer.