As the New Year rolls in, it’s that time when we start thinking about our resolutions. Recently, I saw my friend Sarah post her ambitious goals for the year: read 65 books, swim every Tuesday night, experiment with a recipe from each of her cookbooks, and organize a room each month. I had a good laugh, especially when she checked in at the gym—multiple times a day, no less! While I admire her enthusiasm, it got me thinking about how different life is for those of us with kids.
Let’s be real: I probably read 65 books a year too, but they’re all the same ones that my little one insists on hearing again and again. And swimming on a schedule? The only time I’ve splashed around was when I nearly fell into the tub while trying to grab my phone during bath time. As for cooking, if mac and cheese and chicken nuggets count, I’ve hit that mark more times than I can count.
Organizing one room a month? That’s a laugh! Clearing off the dinner table feels like a monumental task, let alone tackling an entire room. If “organizing” means cramming everything into a closet before guests arrive, then I’m a pro.
Realistic Resolutions for Moms
So, what resolutions can I realistically set for myself as a mom? Here’s what I’ve come up with:
- Shower Daily: Fresh hair and a clean scent are nice, but let’s be honest, I’ll settle for every other day. Getting up early enough before the kids demand my attention is an obstacle I’m still working on.
- Dress Up a Little: Swapping my beloved yoga pants for something a bit nicer could be a good goal. I’m sure my husband would appreciate it. But after the holiday feasting, I might just wait until I can fit comfortably into actual clothes.
- Hydrate More: Water is essential for our health, and while it’s important, I might interpret this as drinking more wine instead. Cheers to that!
- Exercise Six Days a Week: Realistically, let’s just say this one is off the table.
In fact, maybe I should skip the formal resolutions altogether and just focus on being content with who I am and what I’m managing. I think I’m doing pretty great, all things considered!
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Summary
This New Year, instead of the usual lofty resolutions, consider setting realistic and relatable goals as a mom, like finding time for self-care, dressing up occasionally, and staying hydrated—while also embracing the chaos that comes with parenting.