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Embracing Motherhood: A Journey Through Breastfeeding and Beyond
We gathered in a circle, some perched on metal folding chairs while others sank into floral couches that definitely had their heyday in the ’80s. As I surveyed this assembly of mothers, some cradling infants and others chatting freely, I couldn’t help but think, “What am I doing here?” My gaze fell on a little one, just shy of her second birthday, wandering about and occasionally returning to her mother for a quick sip of breastmilk.
“It’s just a boob. Don’t stare!” I chided myself. “It’s her choice to nurse her toddler, even if it makes me a bit uncomfortable.” These thoughts swirled in my mind as I tried not to judge the women at this La Leche League meeting.
As a new mom, I was seeking guidance on nursing in public. I had a baby boy at home, and thankfully, breastfeeding was going smoothly. But each time I nursed him outside, I felt a wave of self-consciousness wash over me and found myself fussing nervously with my nursing cover, desperate to maintain some modesty.
As a lawyer, I was used to a formal environment. Motherhood, breastfeeding, and discussing the less glamorous aspects of parenting were all new territory for me. At this La Leche League meeting, I felt like an outsider. Luckily, my best friend—after some persuasion—joined me, and as we walked to our cars afterward, I exclaimed, “Can you believe the woman nursing her toddler? That’s wild. That’ll never be me.” Oh, the naive musings of my younger self!
Fast Forward to Today
Fast forward to today, and I have a 6-year-old, a 4-year-old, and a 2-year-old who is still nursing. I’ve been breastfeeding for six years straight, nursing through two pregnancies and even tandem nursing—one baby on each side—before weaning my boys at around 3½ years old. Yes, I breastfed them well past 3 years!
Here’s the kicker: I never jumped on any “extended breastfeeding” bandwagon. I didn’t join a club that championed nursing preschoolers or subscribe to any parenting doctrine dictating how long a child should be breastfed. Honestly, I have little patience for those so-called mommy wars. As long as you’re feeding your child in a healthy way, I’m all for it.
I’m just a regular mom, navigating this parenting journey like everyone else. I didn’t end up joining La Leche League after attending only two meetings. I simply do what feels right for my family. And while you don’t need my approval, I wholeheartedly support you in choosing what works best for yours. Whether you opt for bottle or breast, you know your child best.
Resources for Your Journey
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In Summary
Embracing motherhood is a unique experience for everyone. We each have our own paths, and it’s essential to support one another in our choices, whether breastfeeding, bottle-feeding, or exploring other avenues like home insemination.