Letter to a Young Feminist

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Dear sweet girl,

I can’t help but notice that you’ve taken to naming all sorts of things “Lipstick.” This is the second time in two weeks! Let’s put an end to that right now. You’re only 4, and while you can absolutely name that little bear “Chapstick,” the Lipstick saga needs to stop here. And while we’re on the topic, let’s also discuss the unfortunate habit of “borrowing” my fancy makeup brushes to use as keys while I’m trying to cook.

Your time for lipstick will come, but while you wait, I have a few thoughts to share:

Not Everyone Has to Be Elsa

As Halloween approached, I was feeling pretty confident that you had a unique costume idea. In your class of 16 girls, five were set to be Elsa, and you had your heart set on being Peter Pan. I’ll admit I had some doubts about Peter Pan’s outdated themes, but he’s charming and creative, after all. However, on Halloween morning, you decided you wanted to be “Headband Girl.” I was taken aback at first and tried to persuade you otherwise, but your determination was unwavering. So off you went in your colorful headbands and a cape, ready to conquer the day.

As I snapped pictures of you, you told me the rope in your pocket was for rescuing people from lakes. At that moment, I realized that your version of a superhero is just as valid as any other. I even got a bit teary-eyed, realizing you might be the more progressive one among us.

But then there was a moment of heartbreak when a friend came over, and both of you wanted to be Elsa. It made me think of this next lesson:

Everyone Can Be Elsa

Yes, I know it seems contradictory, but hear me out. Every woman has the potential to be strong and magical—just like Elsa. Wanting to be Elsa doesn’t mean someone else can’t be, too. The world has space for multiple powerful women, and we need to embrace that. As you grow, remember that you don’t have to hide your strengths; share them with others and uplift one another. The world isn’t accustomed to seeing powerful women support each other, so let’s change that narrative.

It’s Not Happily Ever After If You Give Up Your Mermaid Tail

I get why you idolize Ariel; mermaids are fascinating, and they explore worlds we can only dream of. Ariel’s enchanting voice must be alluring, especially with all the singing you do in school. But I want you to learn an important lesson from her story: you don’t have to trade in your identity or your “mermaid tail” for a happy ending. Compromise is sometimes necessary, but your uniqueness is invaluable. Keep that tail—it’s your magic, your signature, and a vital part of who you are.

You’re Still Not Getting My Lipstick

Now, let’s return to the lipstick issue. I’ve noticed you’ve been applying lip gloss and asking, “Do I look beautiful?” It worries me because I want you to know that beauty isn’t just about how you look on the outside. It’s that inner spark, the light in your eyes that truly makes you shine. That is the magic you should cherish. You are 4, vibrant, and incredibly special.

Keep marching forward, my dear girl.

Love always,
Momma

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In summary, be true to yourself and embrace your individuality while uplifting others.