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8 Insights I Want My Daughter to Embrace About Being the Tall Girl
Hey there, sweet girl! Let’s chat about something that’s a big part of who you are—your height. When I was in fourth grade, I was already 5 feet 9 inches tall, and with your dad towering at 6 feet 3 inches, it’s safe to say you’re destined to be quite tall yourself. You may not be runway model tall or WNBA tall, but you’ll definitely be the “always at the back of group photos” tall and the “can you grab that cereal box from the top shelf?” tall. While being tall might not feel like the social victory you envision, it comes with its own unique perks and challenges. Here are some things to keep in mind as you grow:
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You’ll Face Some Small Letdowns
You might find that you outgrow your favorite toys before you’ve had a chance to fully enjoy them. Those kiddie rides at the amusement park? Forget about it. Your beloved purple jacket will soon feel like it’s three inches too short. You might also discover that your size makes it hard to find those cute Dora the Explorer sneakers you’ve been eyeing. Sorry about that, sweetheart.
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Your Height Will Be Obvious to Everyone
No matter how much you try to slouch or hide behind friends, your height is going to be noticeable. You’ll earn the nickname “the tall girl with bad posture” before you know it. Short girls can easily slip on a pair of heels to add height, but for you, it’s all about embracing who you are, even if it takes some time.
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People Will Assume You’re Athletic
I remember how thrilled I was to be picked first for sports teams, even though I had about as much coordination as a baby giraffe. People might look at your long limbs and think you’re a natural athlete. Just roll with it; by the time they catch on to your true skills, you’ll likely have already established yourself as team captain!
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You’ll Look Older Than You Are
In seventh grade, I was cast as an orphan in Annie, and while I was pretending to lament my “hard knock life,” I looked like I could have been running my own household. As you stroll around with your stuffed animal, people might mistake you for being older than you are. When they find out you’re only two, their jaws might drop. Just remember, looking older doesn’t mean you need to act older—especially when it comes to those high school party invitations!
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Friendship is About More Than Size
While you might not be able to join a sisterhood of traveling pants with your pals, when you’re having fun, it won’t matter how tall anyone is. I once sat next to a friend in high school who was barely 5 feet tall, and I didn’t even notice until years later. Size doesn’t define your friendships!
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Relationships Can Be A Bit Complicated
My partner sometimes jokes that I wouldn’t have dated him if he were shorter. It’s a funny remark, but there’s a hint of truth to it. As you navigate crushes, some guys might feel intimidated by your height. You’ll have to decide whether you can rock a tall-girl/short-guy relationship or if you prefer someone who matches your stature.
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People Will Expect You to Be Responsible
When I was young, my height often led adults to think I was mature enough to take on responsibilities meant for older kids. You might find yourself in leadership roles, even when you’re just trying to enjoy a cherry ice pop. Just because you look like an adult doesn’t mean you have to act like one—embrace the freedom of being young!
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You’ll Always Be My Daughter
As we stand together like two skyscrapers in a small town, there’s nowhere for us to go but up! Your height is just one of the many things that make you uniquely you.
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In summary, being tall comes with its own set of quirks and joys. While you may face challenges, remember that your height can also be a source of strength and confidence. Embrace it, enjoy your friendships, and know that you’re exactly who you’re meant to be!