10 Surprising Realities I Faced When I Stopped Nursing Cold Turkey

After months of exploring various methods to gradually wean my little one from breastfeeding, I found myself resorting to the ultimate last option: going cold turkey. As a mom who had never been comfortable with the idea of letting my child cry it out, I was understandably anxious about this choice.

Initially, I thought the transition would only be difficult for a few days. Boy, was I wrong! If only someone had prepared me for these unexpected challenges that arose when I decided to stop breastfeeding cold turkey.

1. Leaky Moments

In the first week, I couldn’t believe how many shirts I ruined from leaking. It took me back to those early days after giving birth when my milk was flowing uncontrollably. Ah, the joys of motherhood!

2. Snack Attack

As my hormones fluctuated, I found myself raiding the pantry every night. I was experiencing a mix of emotional and hormonal hunger, resulting in some questionable food choices—chips on pizza or late-night bagels became my norm.

3. Tears Everywhere

Every little thing triggered tears—TV ads, the sweet scent of my child’s hair, laundry piles, or even my husband’s confused expressions. It was embarrassing, but I had to remind myself that my hormones were all over the place.

4. Child’s Emotional Rollercoaster

I was surprised when my little one seemed fine initially, only to have a meltdown by day five, screaming, “Mad, Mad, Mad at Mama!” My heart broke, and my resolve was tested.

5. Dark Thoughts

After quitting breastfeeding, a wave of sadness washed over me. I struggled to sleep and felt down, wondering if my hormonal shifts were to blame. Thankfully, I reached out to friends who provided the support I needed to navigate through this tough time.

6. Temporary Blues

Just like my hormonal crash, this feeling of sadness was temporary. Slowly, I began to regain control and felt optimistic about what lay ahead. My emotions were shaky, but I realized they were just part of the journey.

7. Cabbage and Comfort

I found solace in cabbage leaves, heating pads, and yoga. Getting rest and not feeling guilty for indulging in carbs was crucial. My body was undergoing significant changes, and I had to be gentle with myself.

8. Baby Fever

Hormones can play tricks on you! For a few days, I felt an overwhelming desire for another baby. It was as if my body was reminding me of the joys of motherhood all over again.

9. Moments of Doubt

There were countless times before lunch when I felt like giving up. The look of disappointment in my child’s eyes, sore breasts, and my empty junk food drawer had me questioning my choice. But I persevered, and ultimately, it was for the best.

10. Rethinking Routines

I hadn’t realized that nursing was intertwined with my child’s sleep schedule. It became clear I needed to revamp our nap and bedtime routines. We tried countless methods until we found a new rhythm together.

I wouldn’t recommend quitting breastfeeding cold turkey to anyone. However, after exhausting all other options and seeking the help of a lactation expert, it felt like my only choice. Despite the challenges and emotional turmoil, I believe it was the right decision. Nursing may have been a beautiful chapter for some, but my bond with my child has only grown stronger through this transition. I won’t lie though, I do feel a twinge of sadness as I close the door on this phase.

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Summary

Transitioning away from breastfeeding cold turkey can surprise you with emotional ups and downs, unexpected physical changes, and the need to rework routines. The journey isn’t easy, but it could lead to a stronger bond with your child.