Wise Tips for Public School Parents from an Experienced Mom

Having my youngest child in my 40s has been quite the adventure! My older kids are off in college, while I’m still packing lunches and organizing playdates for their little sister. Sure, being an older mom has its challenges—like when people mistake my daughter for my granddaughter—but I also bring a wealth of experience to the table. As the new school year kicks off, I want to share some friendly advice for parents just diving into public education.

1. Show Some Love to Teachers

Remember, educators thrive on encouragement just like anyone else. Don’t wait until you’re frustrated about homework; instead, send a note sharing what you appreciate about them. A small treat, like cupcakes, can go a long way in lifting their spirits. After all, you tip waitstaff for a meal, and teachers play a much bigger role in your child’s life!

2. Every Teacher is Unique

Just like students, teachers have their own styles and experiences. Some are lively and creative, while others might be more reserved. Each school year will bring its own challenges—some great, some not so great. Just hang in there; you’ve got this!

3. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff

It’s easy to get worked up over things like a failed spelling test, but remember that these little bumps won’t define your child’s future. Keep the pressure off and let them enjoy being a kid!

4. Bullying is Real

Unfortunately, every class has its share of mean kids. The best strategy? Teach your child to ignore and steer clear of bullies. While it’s frustrating, remember that teachers can’t always catch everything. You can voice your concerns, but keep in mind that every child has a right to be in that classroom.

5. Make Connections with Other Parents

Find a few fellow parents from your child’s class to swap contact info. There will be times when your child forgets homework details or important events. Having a couple of go-to parents can save you from a last-minute panic!

6. Teach Empathy

Discuss classmates with disabilities and emphasize the importance of kindness and support. Show your child that compassion begins at home, and set a good example.

7. Meet the Staff

Encourage your child to greet everyone at school—from custodians to the librarian. Understanding that respect goes a long way fosters a sense of community and comfort for your child.

8. Life Isn’t Always Fair

Prepare your child for the reality that they might not always come out on top, whether it’s in a concert solo or a spelling bee. Focus on the bigger picture and save your energy for issues that truly matter.

9. Get Involved

Volunteer whenever you can! Helping out in the classroom or library offers you a unique glimpse into your child’s school life. Plus, it helps you stay connected with the community.

10. Say No to Fundraisers

If you’re not into the fundraising scene, it’s perfectly okay to opt out. Instead of selling unwanted items, consider making a donation directly to the school or buying your child a little treat. No pressure!

When my older kids started school, I had my fair share of unrealistic expectations. But I’m grateful for the wisdom I’ve gained along the way, and I’m ready to tackle this school year with confidence.

For more insights, check out our other blog post on home insemination for helpful tips!

In summary, being a public school parent is a journey filled with unique challenges and rewards. Embrace the experience, stay connected with educators and other parents, and prioritize kindness and understanding for both your child and their peers.