6 Ways My Toddler Is Turning My Life Upside Down

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Having a child can completely transform your life, often in unexpected and not-so-great ways. One of the main reasons I started writing about parenting was to express my frustrations about how my little one’s presence has reshaped my world. While it’s true that becoming a parent changes everything, it doesn’t have to change every little thing.

My partner and I have done our best to cling to parts of our old lives, despite the daily adjustments that come with raising a toddler. However, we can’t escape all the chaos. Here are six ways my child has turned my life upside down:

1. Sleep. Let’s be honest—this one is a given.
2. Dining. I used to enjoy eating anything I wanted at any time. Then I got married, and a few years later, we welcomed a child. Now, every time I open the pantry, my toddler spots something and has a meltdown until he gets it. Even during dinner, he insists on having what’s on my plate, even if he has the same meal in front of him. Initially, I thought it was silly, but I realize he’s just starting his lifelong mission of claiming everything that’s mine.
3. Entertainment. I used to watch whatever I liked, but now I have to shield my viewing choices from my little one. Gone are the days of enjoying movies or shows with adult themes; instead, I find myself enduring endless reruns of Yo Gabba Gabba! and Caillou. My DVR is now filled with the kind of content that makes me question my life choices.
4. Intimacy. Before, I could be spontaneous in my romantic life. Now, my partner and I have limited options: early mornings (if we wake before the toddler), nighttime (when we’re too tired for more than a quick kiss), or during his nap—if he doesn’t wake up crying. Even when I muster the energy, my partner’s interest often vanishes.
5. Drinking. Thankfully, my toddler is still young enough that I don’t have to worry about awkward questions like, “Can I have some?” or “Why do you drink so much?” However, having a child means less freedom to go out and enjoy drinks, and hangovers are a nightmare. Plus, day drinking is practically impossible when I have to manage toddler responsibilities afterward—trust me, he doesn’t need my post-drinking dinner.
6. Being Reckless. I could take risks before—jaywalking, speeding, or just being carefree. Now, I have to think twice about everything, from getting flu shots to sleeping in. While I still manage to act a bit foolish here and there, I’ve also never felt happier overall.

Don’t get me wrong; the joy that comes from parenting far outweighs these challenges. But some days, the balance feels precarious. For more insights on navigating this parenting journey, check out this great resource on pregnancy and home insemination.

In summary, while parenting a toddler can feel overwhelming at times, the love and laughter they bring into your life can make it all worth it. You might find yourself trading sleep, spontaneity, and your favorite TV shows for endless joy and unforgettable moments.