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A Letter to My Long-Distance Friends
Hey there, my dear friends!
I just have to say it outright: I miss you all so much.
It’s hard to believe that we’ve shared our lives for over two decades—maybe even three! Despite the miles that separate us, there are days when the ache of nostalgia hits me like a ton of bricks, leaving me overwhelmed with longing. It’s a feeling I can only compare to the sore muscles I’d have after an intense yoga session (if I ever actually attended one, of course). Some days, the homesickness sneaks up on me, catching me off guard and almost knocking me over.
As the years have gone by, we’ve tried to come to terms with how our friendship has evolved. Our main methods of staying connected now include texts, emails, Facebook messages, and the occasional phone call. I’ve mostly accepted this reality, and I guess I’m used to it most of the time. But I won’t lie—there are moments when I wish we lived closer, spent more time together, and weren’t so busy with life. I will always miss you.
I find myself reminiscing about the good old days when hanging out was as easy as a quick walk down the hallway or a spontaneous phone call saying, “I’ve got some wine; I’m on my way over!” I miss our endless conversations that flowed effortlessly because we had no pressing obligations. I miss our comfortable silences and the way we borrowed shoes, makeup, and everything else without a second thought. Remember our standing dates for shows like 90210 and Party of Five? Good times.
Over the years, we’ve cultivated new friendships with neighbors, coworkers, and other parents—relationships that thrive on daily interactions and shared experiences. I’m thankful for these new friends who fill in some of the gaps and help us navigate through life. Yet, they can never replace the bond we share.
Life seems to be speeding by at an alarming rate, with days zipping past in a whirlwind of school activities, work commitments, and endless to-do lists. Before I know it, years have flown by. But whenever we do manage to get together—whether it’s a few hours on a Sunday or a quick lunch during a work trip—time seems to pause, even if just for a moment.
Even if we go stretches of time without seeing each other, when we do reunite, it feels like we’re back on that well-worn couch from our college days. Our conversations may have shifted to include family updates instead of wild late-night stories, but the authenticity and connection remain. Our friendship still feels like home.
Behind all the nostalgia lies a sturdy foundation built on shared experiences. We can step into those empty spaces left by time apart and fill them with laughter, hugs, and heartfelt conversations as if no time had passed. We’ve all changed, and yet the essence of our friendship remains intact.
So, we meet up whenever we can, even if it’s not nearly enough. We catch up on everything—our families, jobs, and the chaos of daily life. We laugh until we cry over memories, sharing “Remember when…” stories that make us feel young again. We also tackle tough subjects—like health struggles and aging parents—conversations made easier by the understanding of true friendship.
When our visits come to an end, we hug tightly, say “I love you,” and plan our next get-together. Then we slip back into our everyday lives, focusing on our families and local friends. We keep in touch through texts and social media, but the longing for each other never really fades. Until the next time, when we can pick up right where we left off, laughing and chatting as if no time has passed.
Until we meet again…
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In summary, though distances may separate us, our connection remains strong and deep. Time apart might be inevitable, but the bond we share ensures that we can always find our way back to each other.