A Long-Awaited Note to My Partner

Dear Mark,

As I lay here this morning, listening to you engage in a lively game with our little one, it hit me: this letter has been a long time coming, and I owe you a heartfelt apology for not expressing these thoughts sooner.

Thank You

First and foremost, thank you. Thank you for choosing to be fully present in our lives. I see all the times you turn down social invites and work obligations just to spend time with us. Your commitment does not go unnoticed, and it means the world to us.

The Small Things

I appreciate the small things, like making coffee in the morning. To most, it might seem trivial, but to me, it’s a gesture of love. You don’t even drink coffee, yet you take the time to make my morning a little brighter—how sweet is that?

Patience and Support

Thank you for your patience when I have my moments of frustration. You step in when I’m overwhelmed, providing me with a much-needed break. You never judge me for losing my cool with our tiny tornado, and I truly value that.

Joyful Moments

Your enthusiasm when playing makes my heart swell. Whether it’s dumping out toys just to put them back or wearing a pink cape while chasing our daughter around, your joyful spirit and her laughter fill our home with happiness.

A Loving Example

Thank you for showing affection in front of her. It’s essential that she sees a loving relationship between her dad and me, so she knows what to expect in her own future. Your gentle touch and loving words are a perfect example of how a man should treat a woman.

Recharge Moments

I’m grateful for your mid-day texts, the silly songs you create to make mundane tasks fun, and for always being the first one up on weekends. Those little moments, even if they’re just brief, give me a chance to recharge, even if it’s just for 15 minutes before our daughter jumps in for cuddles.

My Rock

Thank you for being my rock when my mind spirals into worry. Your calmness is a balance to my chaos, and I couldn’t ask for a better partner in this parenting adventure.

Seeing Me Beyond “Mommy”

I also appreciate that you see me as more than just “mommy.” Your compliments, even if I laugh them off, mean more than you know. And when you carry our daughter in public, it’s not just about practicality; it’s about the love that shines through those moments.

Support in My Endeavors

Your support in my endeavors, whether it’s finding time for a workout or a creative project, shows me that you believe in me. Thank you for being just as perplexed as I am about the wild ride of parenting—this journey is infinitely better with you by my side.

In Summary

So, thank you for everything. For the little things, the big things, and for always being here with us.

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In summary, my dear Mark, your love, patience, and unwavering support make this chaotic journey of parenthood so much more beautiful. Here’s to many more adventures together!