Long Locks, No Limits: Why I’m Keeping My Sons’ Hair Long

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People often mistake my boys for girls. When this happens, I gently correct them, using “he” and “him” instead of “she.” Most strangers are mortified, apologizing profusely as if mistaking my sons for girls is some sort of faux pas. I brush it off, assuring them it’s no big deal. After all, when your kids sport long hair, confusion is just part of the package.

I’ve always had a thing for long hair on guys. Back in college, I would beg my boyfriends to let their hair grow, and I spent countless hours trying to convince my husband to skip the barber. I find little boys with long hair absolutely charming, so when I became a mom to boys, I made it my mission to let their hair flow.

My oldest son almost derailed my plans. He was born bald and stayed that way for nearly a year. But soon enough, his hair started to grow—albeit in the most amusing way. It fluffed out like a tiny Einstein. Meanwhile, my second son sports beautiful, straight hair that hangs down past his shoulders in a surfer style. As for my youngest, he’s still in the early stages, but he’s developing some adorable beachy curls!

Family Opinions

Family opinions differ. My mom and in-laws prefer the classic short boy cuts, with my mother even suggesting she could take the kids to the barber herself. These comments stem from traditional views where boys should have short hair and girls long hair, reminiscent of a classic children’s book where everything is neatly categorized. I simply ignore their opinions.

Some folks have even suggested my sons look unkempt. While I found that amusing at first, I realized that a little trim can go a long way in managing their hair without sacrificing length. My oldest’s hair had indeed become a bit wild, so I reluctantly trimmed it to help his real hair thrive. He looked like a little sheep afterward, but he’s happy with his new style and insists it will grow long again.

The Joy of Long Hair

The best part? My boys love their hair. My oldest is determined to grow it out, while my middle son proudly informs everyone that he’s aiming for hair down to his knees. The baby’s too young to express an opinion yet, but I’ll definitely ask him when the time comes. If he decides he wants a haircut, I’ll comply—even if it means a few sniffles on my part.

My middle son understands the commitment that comes with long hair. We have to be mindful of tangles and the occasional sticky situation—from dirt to snacks. He knows that means baths and some extra grooming, which includes a daily brushing and occasionally straightening. He claims he enjoys it, but he also knows standing still is non-negotiable.

Sometimes, kids mistake them for girls and wonder why “the girls” are wearing Star Wars shirts. We correct them, and they usually get it. So far, my boys haven’t faced any bullying over their hair, perhaps because long-haired boys are becoming more mainstream, or maybe it’s just the crowd we hang out with.

Embracing Individuality

I adore their long, flowing locks. I love that they chose their hairstyles based on their preferences rather than societal expectations. Most importantly, I cherish that their long hair is a reflection of their individuality. It’s beautiful, unique, and perfectly them.

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In summary, my sons’ long hair is an expression of their identity, and despite some traditional pushback, I’m proud to let them embrace their style.