We May Be Struggling Financially, But Happiness is Still Within Reach

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It’s a bright, beautiful day—the kind where the sky shines a bit more vibrantly and the sun seems to beckon me outdoors. So, of course, I decide to take my kids out for a little adventure. We’ll hit the park, browse through a thrift store, and maybe snag some free smoothie samples from our go-to juice shop. Once we return, I’ll get crafty with my preschooler while the toddler naps, or we might engage in a light-hearted debate over how to fit puzzle pieces together. It sounds like the perfect Saturday, filled with joy—without costing us a dime.

And let’s be real, it has to be free. Our budget is tighter than a drum. When I first envisioned motherhood, I pictured us gallivanting across the country as entrepreneurs, with enough cash to splurge on top-notch homeschooling materials, stylish clothes, and eco-friendly wooden toys. We’d even roll around in a fancy minivan with the safest car seats imaginable.

But, as life often does, reality hit hard.

After two harrowing pregnancies marked by hyperemesis, two maternity leaves that significantly slashed my income as a small business owner, and a diagnosis of a major chronic illness that reshaped our daily lives, we find ourselves in a very literal “poor house”—a cozy apartment, no car, and slowly trying to regain our financial footing.

We’re not unique; we’re just like many Americans who find themselves just one health scare or job loss away from financial uncertainty.

We’re taught that hard work will inevitably lead to financial stability. If we stick to our plans and follow the rules (mostly), we believe we’ll be able to provide for our kids and give them what they need—and even some of what they want. It all seems so simple.

But what happens when your carefully laid plans crumble? When you can’t spend $35 on a box of Legos or $115 on a softball registration? When you’re forced to compromise on groceries and can’t afford the best car seats? Can you still foster a happy family?

Absolutely. Yes, it can be frustrating not to have a safety net of cash to rely on. It can feel isolating, especially for those of us who are working hard but still struggling. People often assume that just because you have a job, you’re financially secure, which can lead to feelings of shame when that’s not the case.

While our circumstances might not be ideal, our life is filled with blessings.

Our happiness as a family doesn’t hinge on the state of our bank account. Sure, our dreams of cross-country travel and brand-new shoes are on pause, but our joy is still alive and kicking.

Happiness isn’t as elusive as it seems. We all know that the latest gadgets and expensive vacations aren’t the key to raising well-adjusted kids. As their mom, I recognize that my own happiness is vital to my children’s well-being. They don’t always care about what I can’t provide; they’re perfectly content with the simple joys we already share.

When I choose happiness, my patience increases, and I can engage in fun, budget-friendly activities like arts and crafts without losing my cool over spilled glue. I’m not consumed by what we lack, which frees up my energy to seek out scholarships and free educational resources.

Those sun-drenched Saturdays are filled with laughter and joy, radiating from my little ones, complete with hugs, kisses, and giggles over my preschooler’s cheesy jokes. I’ve even caught some envious glances from others as we bask in our own happiness, blissfully unaware of my empty wallet. They can see we’re a happy family, even if they don’t know the details of our financial situation.

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In summary, even when finances are tight, happiness can thrive in the simplest of moments. Prioritizing joy allows us to embrace our family’s happiness and find fulfillment in what truly matters.