11 Insights Gained From Three Months on Facebook

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It’s been a wild three months since I dove headfirst into the realm of social media, specifically Facebook, and I must admit, I’m starting to see it in a light that’s oddly enjoyable yet still bewildering. Just kidding—it’s still a chaotic mess that sends my anxiety levels soaring and leaves me questioning humanity’s future. But amidst the madness, I’ve gathered a few nuggets of wisdom:

1. Reconnecting with old friends made me realize just how much I missed certain people from my past.
2. Conversely, I also rediscovered how some folks can really get under my skin. (Not you, of course; you’re exempt from that list!)
3. The greatest feature ever? You can be “friends” with someone without feeling the need to follow their every post. In real life, wouldn’t it be neat to just mute the people who annoy you while still pretending to care? Raises hand enthusiastically.
4. I’m more convinced than ever that Facebook disrupts the natural progression of life. Some people leave your life for a reason, yet social media brings them back, ensuring that even the most unfit remnants of your past linger on your feed.
5. All this reminiscing has stirred a profound nostalgia within me for my younger self, albeit in a highly romanticized way. Recently, I stumbled upon a photo from my 19th birthday, conjuring memories of feeling invincible on a summer night, driving with the windows down, and a drink in hand. But nostalgia can be deceiving; it often glosses over the struggles that accompanied those carefree moments.
6. My urge to quantify my self-worth through likes and comments makes this whole social media experience perilous. I sometimes find myself calculating my value with a ridiculous formula: (Likes + Comments ÷ People Reached) – Unlikes × Square Root of CRAZY.
7. What this equation overlooks are things like heartfelt messages expressing gratitude, the fears I battle before clicking “publish,” and the self-discovery that comes from sharing my thoughts online.
8. While the internet has been shrinking my attention span, Facebook and Twitter have taken it to a whole new level. It’s a constant flick of the thumb away from the next piece of content, making me feel like I might miss out if I don’t skim every article.
9. I firmly refuse to change my profile picture as a gesture of solidarity during tragic events. I’m all too adept at convincing myself I’ve made a difference when, in reality, I haven’t done much at all. Sure, it feels good to show I care, but sometimes we need to sit with our discomfort rather than distract ourselves with hollow gestures.
10. On the upside, I’ve discovered some truly brilliant writing that I would have otherwise overlooked thanks to social media.
11. Every new beginning is intimidating, yet it’s unlikely to be the end of the world.

This experience has reshaped my perspective and helped me navigate the complexities of online life, making me more aware of both its pitfalls and its potential.

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Summary:

In my three-month journey on Facebook, I’ve learned about the bittersweet nature of nostalgia, the complexities of online interactions, and the dangers of quantifying self-worth through social media metrics. While I’ve made meaningful connections and discovered beautiful writing, I’m also aware of the pitfalls that come with this digital age. Ultimately, I’m navigating the chaos and embracing the lessons it brings.