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Why My Partner is the Superior Parent
People frequently express how fortunate I am to have a partner who takes care of the kids on weekends while I’m working. “If he’s busy all week and handles the kids all weekend, when does he get to unwind?” they ask. My partner is a hard worker; he puts in a tremendous effort each day, and when he comes home, he dives right into family life. But I do my fair share too, right? I care for our children during the weekdays and often work nights and weekends, so my breaks are scarce as well. It’s not just the moms who feel the pressure; it’s all parents.
I’d be stretching the truth to claim that a dad taking care of his kids deserves a standing ovation. I mean, it’s kind of part of the gig, isn’t it? That said, my partner does go above and beyond in his parenting role. He’s practically a parenting rock star, and I’d even argue he’s got a knack for it that sometimes leaves me feeling like I’m not measuring up.
Sure, I’m not a slacker when it comes to motherhood. I read bedtime stories, kiss scraped knees, and I’m the undisputed queen of snack time. But my partner? He’s just on another level.
With all the chores, appointments, and my work schedule, I often find myself out of time. Dinner sometimes comes from a box, laundry can linger in the dryer, and it’s not unusual for the kids to spend the day in pajamas with mismatched socks. I feel like I’m sprinting every day, yet I often don’t arrive at my intended destination. Honestly, those days I’m at work sometimes feel like a mini-vacation, and I never know what to expect when I come home after my partner has held down the fort.
But it’s not what you might assume. I’m not concerned about what chaos has unfolded with three energetic boys. I’m not anxious that the house is a disaster or that the kids have learned to juggle. No, it’s usually quite the opposite.
I often return to a spotless home that smells of fresh linen and cleanliness. It’s common to be greeted by two freshly bathed, well-fed little ones who shower me with hugs. The aroma of a homemade meal often draws me into the kitchen, leaving me salivating, and it’s not unusual to find a transformed space where my partner has painted walls or even installed a tile backsplash in the bathroom.
How does he pull it off? How does he wrangle our whirlwind children long enough to steam the floors? How does he whip up perfect mini cheeseburger cups while also remembering to use fabric softener? And somehow, he manages to mix me a delightful “welcome home” cocktail while scrubbing the boys clean. It’s like he possesses a magical parenting toolkit filled with tricks and tactics!
I’ll admit that sometimes his success makes me feel inadequate. It’s not that I don’t achieve anything—I do! It’s just that he makes it all look so effortless that I sometimes question my own parenting skills. I even checked our budget to see if he was secretly hiring help while I’m away, but nope—he’s been saving us money on groceries by using coupon apps. Seriously, he’s impressive!
I loved him before we tied the knot, but I never fully grasped the depth of his capabilities. I didn’t realize that beneath that gorgeous hair lies the secret to effective parenting, a killer salmon recipe, and the creativity of an HGTV contractor with a fantastic vinyl collection.
Sure, he may leave socks in strange places and neglect the sink after shaving, but those quirks don’t diminish his many strengths. He might sleep in a little too late on Sundays or spend money on plants that are doomed, but his devotion to our family makes up for it. He might rip his jeans and critique my Christmas wrapping technique, but he prioritizes our family every single day.
So when people say I’m lucky, they are absolutely right. I am incredibly fortunate to have married a man who keeps our family thriving as both a fantastic father and a partner. And for that, I’d happily relinquish my crown any day because he truly deserves one.
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In summary, my partner is not just a parent; he’s a parenting wizard who makes family life not just manageable but enjoyable. His dedication and creativity inspire me, and I’m grateful every day for the balance he brings to our household.