A Call to Rethink Chivalry

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Ah, Valentine’s Day—the day of hearts, flowers, and all things sweet. But it also sparks a thought: chivalry is as outdated as a flip phone. When I ponder the whole “Ladies First” mantra, I can’t help but picture the Titanic tragedy. Imagine all those brave men who faced icy waters while letting women in frilly dresses board lifeboats first. Sure, the intention was noble, but let’s face it, if it came down to saving one more woman or ensuring a few more men survived, it’s like a bad rom-com where the plot twist is “sorry, fellas, she gets the last life vest.”

Let’s be real—times have changed! We no longer rely solely on traditional methods of reproduction. Babies are being created in test tubes, through surrogacy, and yes, even in the backseat of cars. Plus, love is love, and same-sex marriage is no longer a rarity. Nowadays, airline attendants remind us to secure our own oxygen masks before assisting others. And guess what? The world is still spinning with a solid population count.

You might be thinking, “But I want my son to be a gentleman; he won’t attract any girls if he’s not chivalrous.” Here’s the thing: I find it uncomfortable to teach my son to prioritize girls “just because.” Chivalry hails from a time when knights in shining armor were busy slaying dragons to rescue helpless damsels. I mean, come on—what about the girl? She’s probably sitting there, rolling her eyes while dreaming of a partner who doesn’t need to perform a circus act just to prove his worth.

In today’s world, we’re surrounded by empowered women—think of the fierce girl power icons, a “girl on fire” archer saving her realm, and even women running for the highest office in the land. The meaning of “Ladies First” has evolved. We say girls can do anything, but what about the boys? Don’t they deserve a chance too?

Here’s the crux: we shouldn’t raise our sons to open doors for girls simply because they lack a Y chromosome. Instead, let’s instill the value of compassion for everyone—regardless of color, background, or interests. Rather than perpetuating a stereotype of self-absorption, why not teach them selflessness?

Let’s bid farewell to chivalry as we know it. Women and men are equals, different but equally valuable. Let’s guide our children to understand that equality means everyone deserves love, attention, and respect. After all, putting others first is a lesson that would make even the most traditional fair maiden proud.

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In summary, it’s time to dismantle the antiquated notions of chivalry. Instead, let’s teach our children the importance of mutual respect and care for all, setting them up for a kinder future.