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8 Ways Parenting is Like Being a Servant on ‘Downton Abbey’
As we prepare to say goodbye to the beloved characters of Downton Abbey, I can’t help but reflect on the life lessons learned from the show, particularly from the devoted servants of the estate. While I adore the upper class with their grand lives and polished manners, as a parent of three, I find my day-to-day existence more akin to that of the bustling downstairs crew. Here are eight amusing parallels between raising kids and working at Downton Abbey:
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Dressing Them is a Full-Time Job
Before your little ones master the art of dressing themselves, you’re often on your knees, helping them into their clothes while they cling to you like a lifeline. If it weren’t for your patience, they might just try to put their head through the armhole! And let’s not forget the endless buttoning, zipping, and tying. There you go, darling, ready for ballet class! -
Hair Brushing is a Battle
If only combing your child’s hair were as elegant as Anna styling Lady Mary’s chic bob. More often, it resembles a wrestling match with a wild animal. After a valiant struggle, the desired French braid transforms into a lopsided ponytail that could use a bit more finesse. Maybe a beauty course should be on your to-do list! -
Cleaning Shoes is a Never-Ending Task
Whether it’s sand, mud, or who knows what else, kids have a knack for bringing the outdoors in. It’s your duty to keep those shoes clean or face the consequences of muddy footprints decorating your floors. And what else could you possibly be doing at 10 p.m.? Clearly, you are here to serve! -
Keeping Secrets is Essential
Just like the staff at Downton who know all the family’s secrets—like Marigold’s true parentage—parents also have to keep hush-hush about certain things. Sure, you know where the best ice cream shop is, but your 4-year-old doesn’t need to know about it yet! -
Your Presence is Required Around the Clock
At all hours, your kids call for you. From late-night thirst quenchers to early morning cereal pourings, your life revolves around their whims. It’s akin to the bell summoning the Downton staff, except at home, it’s the persistent whining that gets you moving. As Cora wisely said, “You are being tested.” Well, consider yourself training for the parenting Olympics! -
Plans Change Without Warning
One moment, it’s a zoo trip, and the next, your child has decided they detest all forms of greenery—even after you just prepared a feast of broccoli. Like Mr. Barrow, who faced unexpected twists in his career, don’t count on your kids to stick to the original plan. -
They Demand Total Commitment
Being a parent requires unwavering dedication. Late-night diaper changes, the inevitable clean-up after a rogue snack attack, and endless encouragement are just part of the job. While it may not involve the dramatic secrets of Downton, it certainly feels like a grand commitment! -
They’re Unaware of Their Good Fortune
You’ve painstakingly washed their favorite superhero shirt again, and yet they have no clue just how lucky they are. From special snacks to the chaos of playdates, they’re blissfully unaware of the lengths you go to for their happiness—much like the Crawleys, who were simply born into privilege.
As Downton Abbey draws to a close, so too will this stage of parenting. One day, our children will be able to dress themselves, brush their own hair, and drive themselves to the nearest donut shop. Until then, we’ll keep on serving, because, as the Dowager Countess says, giving in to defeat is simply not an option!
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Summary:
Raising kids is much like being a servant at Downton Abbey, full of unexpected demands, tireless devotion, and a touch of chaos. Parents often find themselves in roles similar to the beloved downstairs crew, where every day is a blend of service, love, and the occasional battle for dignity.