Pumping at Work: The Postpartum Journey of a Working Mom

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OK, I’ll admit it—I was not ready for the whirlwind of challenges that came with being a working mom. Sure, I knew I had to return to my job after my first child arrived, but for some reason, I underestimated how tough it would actually be.

I didn’t really think about what sending my little one to daycare would entail. I never imagined the wave of anxiety I’d feel leaving my baby in someone else’s care. And who knew the local daycare scene would be so competitive that I’d be searching for childcare before even giving birth? I also had no clue how to juggle work responsibilities while dealing with the sleepless nights that come with a newborn. These are just a few of the early surprises of navigating motherhood while working that caught me off guard.

Joining the ranks of working mothers in my office felt like entering an exclusive club—one dominated by men and women well past their child-rearing years. I was shocked to discover how much my personal life, which I thought I could keep separate, would seep into my professional world.

No, that sign taped to my office door that reads “Knock, Please” doesn’t mean to knock and just walk in. It signifies that I’m hooked up to a breast pump and trying to finish up before my milk supply decides to go on strike.

And no, I don’t want to join that conference call right now. I’d much rather sit at my desk, scrolling through baby photos and checking my daycare’s Facebook updates than listen to the latest work drama.

You might see me tearing up at my desk, but I promise you, I didn’t plan on crying at work. Those extra breast pads you see? They’re not fancy bra accessories. By mid-morning, I could toss one across the room with enough milk to fuel your coffee break. So please, stop staring!

As for taking on that extra work trip today? No thanks. Even though I’m physically at work, I’m still pumping every few hours. Dragging my breast pump around and searching for a clean restroom at a gas station hardly seems appealing or hygienic.

And no, I can’t just pump in my car; it’s not powered by the cigarette lighter. Trust me, I tried.

Yes, the thought of more assignments makes me want to cry; in fact, I probably will. And when you ask me to stay late, my heart races—those dollar-a-minute fines for being late to daycare don’t exactly match my paycheck.

Yes, I realize my clothes fit differently now. Let’s just say everything is tighter, and shopping for a new wardrobe is not high on my to-do list right now.

Yes, I know my baby is being stubborn about the bottle. And yes, she gets cranky while waiting for me to finish work so she can feast. Please don’t kick me out of daycare!

I know I should be making healthy meals, but after a long day, takeout is often the easiest option. And I understand that I shouldn’t rock my baby to sleep every night, but let’s be real—I’m just too exhausted to let her cry it out.

I get it, this phase will pass. But knowing that doesn’t make today or tomorrow any easier. So tomorrow morning, I’ll rise, get ready for work, and drop my baby off at daycare. As I make my way to the office, I’ll remind myself of the blessings I have and make a pit stop for a much-needed caffeine fix.

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Summary:

Navigating the challenges of being a working mom after childbirth isn’t easy. From the anxiety of daycare to the struggles of pumping at work, the journey is filled with unexpected hurdles. Embracing the chaos and seeking support can help make the experience a little more manageable.