A Shout Out to the Moms I Cherish Most

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A Shout Out to the Moms I Cherish Most

by Panda Elder

Updated: May 8, 2016

Originally Published: May 8, 2016

Being a mom is a fantastic experience, not just because my little ones sprint towards me with their arms wide open and huge grins, but because it has welcomed me into a sisterhood of incredible women. I’ve never found it easier to connect with others. Lifelong friendships have blossomed from simple interactions like standing at the base of a slide and saying, “What a cute kid! How old are they?”

The mothers who have joined me on this parenting journey have transformed dull days into delightful ones and alleviated my feelings of loneliness and doubt. I’ve admired many moms along the way—those who always seem to have everything under control, the ones who embody endless patience, and those who make every parenting choice with unwavering confidence.

But I also have a soft spot for the moms who forget their diaper bags at playdates, the ones who sneak in a curse word now and then, and those who candidly admit, “I have no clue what I’m doing.” I’m equally inspired by the mothers who nurse their children for years and those who stockpile formula before their baby even arrives. I appreciate both the helicopter parents and the laid-back ones because I know their hearts are in the right place. I admire the moms who spend their days pretending to be interested in endless rounds of Candy Land and those who lead dinosaur parades around their homes. Ultimately, I cherish the ones who embrace their imperfections, who celebrate being authentic—both as mothers and as individuals.

Here’s a shout-out to some of my favorite moms:

1. The one who strolled into the baby shower an hour late, misreading the invitation, and brought in a huge unwrapped box with a car seat on the side. She plopped down and refused to join in on baby bingo. I love a fellow hot-mess mom who can own her chaos without any apologies.
2. The mom who admitted at the park that she had no idea what to do when her nanny called in sick. On our first meeting, she casually mentioned going to Chili’s with her infant for a drink before picking up her son from preschool. Seriously, how does anyone parent all day without a nanny?
3. The mom who invites me over without cleaning up first. I admire her priorities—she comes home from work and dives right into family time without stressing about the mess. She doesn’t care if others judge her for the dirt on her floors, and I feel privileged to be welcomed into her unfiltered space.
4. The mom who candidly says her 2-year-old can be a bit of a handful. It’s refreshing to call it like it is!
5. The mom who takes solo trips and regularly enjoys girls’ nights. Motherhood isn’t a contest to see who can sacrifice the most.
6. The mom who admits her husband can be really annoying sometimes. Sure, we should respect our partners, but it’s nice to relate and not feel isolated in our experiences.
7. The mom who didn’t buy her newborn a fancy outfit for New Year’s Eve. She didn’t let social media make her feel inadequate, which is pretty commendable. (Okay, maybe she felt a smidge, but she didn’t buy one for Valentine’s Day or St. Patrick’s Day either, so kudos!)
8. The mom who serves fish sticks and fries for dinner. Nutrition is important, but don’t we all just want to whip up something the kids will actually eat without complaints?
9. The mom who got so frazzled while trying to put on her son’s shoe that she accidentally slobbered in it. With three kids under three, that’s totally justifiable. I love her for being relatable enough to lose her cool and for sharing her tale when I needed reassurance after I pushed a high chair with so much force that it cracked a cabinet (don’t worry, no child was inside, I swear!).
10. The mom who accidentally gave her 3-year-old a spicy strawberry-jalapeño popsicle. He kept coughing in the backseat, and she initially thought he was just being dramatic. After taking a bite herself, she realized it was indeed spicy. We all make mistakes, but not everyone can turn a boo-boo into such a funny story!

If you consider yourself an imperfect mom, let’s meet at the park. If you serve wine at your kid’s parties, count me in. Thank you for keeping it real. Moms who speak the uncomfortable truths make life easier for everyone else. You inspire authenticity, understanding, and, of course, plenty of laughter. Motherhood isn’t just about raising great kids; it’s also about forging amazing friendships.

Thank you to all the moms out there who keep it real. It’s a joy to share this journey of motherhood with you. If you want to dive deeper into topics related to home insemination, check out this blog post for more insights. Also, for those looking into at-home insemination options, Make a Mom is a fantastic resource. For more information on pregnancy and fertility, Science Daily offers excellent resources.

Summary

This article celebrates the beautifully imperfect journey of motherhood, highlighting the camaraderie among moms who embrace their flaws and support each other through the chaos. It shares humorous anecdotes of various mothers, each unique in their approach to parenting, encouraging authenticity and connection among women in this shared experience.