5 Ways Technology Simplifies Motherhood

May 10, 2016

Everyone seems to bemoan how technology has made life busier and more chaotic. Parents particularly grumble about their kids being glued to screens, forsaking outdoor play for video games and constant texting. Restaurant tables are often filled with couples staring at their phones instead of each other, and subway rides are filled with people who’ve forgotten to look up.

However, amidst all the complaints about technology’s pitfalls, I must confess: as a mom, technology has made my life infinitely easier. Honestly, I can’t fathom how mothers in the ’70s managed to coordinate a school party without the luxury of email. Reflecting on the extensive efforts my mom had to exert back in the day leaves me in awe. I genuinely don’t think I would have made it through the toddler years without Google by my side. Here are a few ways technology has lightened my load:

1. Planning School Parties

Old School: My mom had to make 25 phone calls just to organize a simple classroom celebration. She endured endless ringing at Jane’s house, had to deal with Sandy’s kid picking up the phone, and Roberta’s son took a message but forgot the details about the eggs. It took three weeks, and by the end, she was close to losing it.

Now: I just send one email outlining the party needs to everyone involved. Barring a few individuals who reply all with unnecessary comments, the planning happens between stops on the way to dance class. And guess what? I don’t even have to chat with Sandy.

2. PTA Meetings

Old School: Monthly meetings were a formal affair, attended by a sea of perfectly coiffed women. Dues were collected, parliamentary procedure was strictly followed, and homemade snacks were a must. If you missed a meeting, you might as well have missed the latest gossip.

Now: I keep up with my kids’ schools via Facebook. I can check the PTA minutes on my phone while waiting for soccer practice to wrap up. Who even goes to PTA meetings anymore?

3. Grocery Shopping

Old School: My mom would spend hours wandering aisles in search of essentials like Wonder Bread, fluff, and bologna. She’d cram everything into her non-air-conditioned car only to scream at us kids to help unload it, which, of course, took forever.

Now: I can lounge in my pajamas, wine in hand, and order groceries online. A delivery person brings everything right to my door. With a tip and a quick thank-you, I can put everything away in about 20 minutes. I still order Wonder Bread, though!

4. Work Life

Old School: My mom went to a job where she was dressed up, used her real name, and functioned without constant interruptions. She had lunch breaks, a paycheck, and respect in her field.

Now: I work from home in yoga pants, juggling the demands of my sticky kids while trying to concentrate over the Disney Channel noise. I have to remember to look presentable for video calls, and my workday never truly ends thanks to emails. Maybe my mom had it better in this regard.

5. Staying Connected

Old School: My mom didn’t have the luxury of email, texting, or social media. She had to interact face-to-face to get things done, all while managing three young kids at home. She still maintains friendships from high school and attends reunions.

Now: I can go days without having to engage in real-life conversations. With modern technology, I can pick and choose who I interact with, thanks to Caller ID. Playdates are arranged over email, and I stay in touch with friends via text. I even attended my high school reunion through a Facebook group.

Yes, my mom had a tougher time, and while technology has its downsides, it has undoubtedly helped me juggle work and family life better than she could. Sure, some days it feels a bit impersonal or lonely, but at least I can skip the full outfit for a PTA meeting and still catch up on my favorite shows like Grey’s Anatomy.

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In summary, while technology may have its drawbacks, it has undeniably made the journey of motherhood more manageable, allowing for greater flexibility and connectivity.