My Commitment to Moms of Kids with Unique Needs

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Hey there, Super Mom,

I owe you an apology. I was a bit naive, thinking my little one wouldn’t notice the differences. I figured they’d just dive into playtime without a care for things like wheelchairs or hand-flapping. But guess what? He did notice.

It broke my heart to see him frown and point when he spotted your child flapping her hands. And my cheeks flushed as he clung to my leg at the sight of your son’s wheelchair. It’s perplexing, isn’t it? A two-year-old can cut through the complexities of life with a simple, “Mommy, I scared.”

That’s where it all begins for us. The root of stereotypes—fear of the unknown. Why would I think my toddler would act any differently? He’s just being a kid.

So here’s my vow: We will embrace these differences together. If he points at your child in the store, I won’t shush him with a hush of shame. Instead, we’ll talk about it. And not just the differences, but the things that connect us too.

• “He rolls in a wheelchair, and you run on your legs, but look, he’s rocking a PAW Patrol shirt just like you!”
• “She flaps her hands when she’s excited, and you clap and laugh. Looks like you both enjoy those silly monkeys!”
• “She has Down syndrome, but you both love playing soccer.”
• “He’s got no hair, and look at your curly locks! He’s wearing blue, and you adore that color too!”

Those moments of acknowledging both the differences and the similarities may feel a bit awkward, but they’re essential. If they help erase fear and foster friendships, then they’re absolutely worth it. Because let’s be real—parenting is a tough gig. If it isn’t, we might just be doing it wrong.

And just to be clear, this isn’t about me trying to feel good about myself—it’s about my child not missing out on incredible experiences. I work with your amazing kids daily, and I learn so much about strength, kindness, and joy. I want my little guy to soak up these lessons and share in these moments.

So, let’s get together! Let’s sip some coffee while our kids learn from each other. Who knows? One day they might even be enjoying coffee together as adults.

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In summary, let’s commit to fostering understanding and connection for our kids, encouraging them to embrace diversity and friendship while navigating the complexities of life together.