25 Signs Your Marriage is Built to Last

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It’s hard to believe that it’s been 21 years since I first met my husband, and this September, we’ll be toasting 17 years of marriage. From the moment I gazed into his sparkling blue eyes, I just knew we were destined to tie the knot. Back then, our idea of a strong marriage revolved around romance, friendship, and zero arguments over bills. Fast forward to now—mortgage, two kids, and a dog later—and my definition of a solid marriage has evolved. These days, it’s more about tackling household chores together, presenting a united front on parenting, and absolutely no complaints from him about my guilty pleasure, watching the latest reality shows.

While the initial whirlwind of romance might have settled, our bond has strengthened in ways I never imagined possible. For instance, cleaning up after a sick child at 2 a.m. is definitely a bonding experience. Our yardstick for measuring marital success has shifted away from date nights and intimacy, to recognizing the little things that indicate our relationship can weather any storm. So, here are 25 quirky indicators that your marriage is indeed going strong—spoiler alert: none involve daily bouquets!

1. You wouldn’t dream of binge-watching your favorite series without him and feel a twinge of guilt if you sneak an episode.
2. He surprises you with coffee after the morning school run, complete with your favorite amount of sugar.
3. You actually enjoy the warmth of his feet against yours during the night.
4. He doesn’t bat an eye when you hand him the toddler as soon as he walks in the door, while you make your exit.
5. You’ve both graduated from asking for permission to spend a little cash.
6. You’ve made peace with the fact that he’ll never load the dishwasher.
7. He’s accepted that taking out the garbage, mowing the lawn, and handling bugs are not your forte.
8. He’s ditched the sexy lingerie gifts for comfy flannel pajamas—practicality wins!
9. Just catching him folding laundry ignites a spark in you.
10. When he says, “Mom already said no,” you know you’re united in the parenting trenches.
11. He’s seen you at your most vulnerable, yet still finds you desirable.
12. When he traces the marks of motherhood on your body, he still sees the woman he fell for.
13. You’ve endured some pretty foul odors but still share a romantic connection.
14. He never questions your latest shoe purchase, and you simply roll your eyes when he brings home more car parts.
15. You both wholeheartedly agree that ’80s music reigns supreme.
16. He can flawlessly order your favorite drink while you’re in the restroom.
17. He requests your wedding song every time you attend a wedding, whisking you to the dance floor afterward.
18. He’s the only one you’d admit to being wrong around, and he’d never spill the beans.
19. He fully respects your hypothetical crush on a certain rock star.
20. He’ll tell you if your haircut doesn’t look great, and you won’t hesitate to point out when his style falls flat.
21. You stood by him during his fitness obsession, and you’re still there for the aftermath.
22. Across a crowded room, a glance communicates, “This is dull. Let’s grab another drink and escape.”
23. You’ve sat through countless performances and both agree that your kid isn’t winning any music awards.
24. Date nights now consist of quick cocktails after parent-teacher meetings, and you cherish that time.
25. You both know no one else would put up with your quirks.

Marriage can be a tough gig, especially with the daily grind of parenting and careers. But if you look closer, you’ll find signs that the person sitting across from you still sees a future worth fighting for—except for those late-night cleaning sessions.

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Summary: A strong marriage isn’t only about romance; it’s about shared experiences, mutual support, and a deep understanding of each other’s quirks. Recognizing these indicators can help you appreciate the bond that has strengthened over the years.