10 Traits Shared by Strict Moms

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Let’s face it: at some point, every mom will earn the title of “Meanest Mom in the Universe.” Sure, your kids may label you as mean, but what these so-called mean moms really understand is that sometimes tough love is what shapes our children into kind, respectful individuals. Honestly, I’d prefer “mean mom” over “doormat” any day. If you’re never a little tough on your kids, you might not be doing this parenting thing right. Here are 10 things that mean moms have in common:

  1. We Insist on Cleaning Up
    To the utter dismay of my oldest, who is now 9, I’m so mean that I actually require my kids to clean up after themselves. If they’re making a mess while jumping around with snacks, they know they’ll need to grab the vacuum afterward.
  2. We Teach Accountability
    Forgotten homework? That’s a one-time pass, but after that, it’s late submission time. If my kids lie, there are consequences. If they break something, they must make it right. In other words, I’m the mean mom who expects them to own their actions.
  3. We Prioritize Proper Attire
    While my kids see jackets as torture devices, I’m merely ensuring they stay warm. And yes, I make them wear clothes without holes or stains. Sometimes, they even have to wear socks. The horror!
  4. We Encourage Imagination
    I’m so mean that my kids know it’s not my job to amuse them. Sure, we have fun together, but there are times when I say no, pushing them to use their imaginations. If I’m feeling particularly mean, I might even shoo them outside for some peace and quiet.
  5. We Require Effort for Rewards
    Kids today may think they deserve a smartphone at 8, but mean moms know better. We teach them that privileges are earned, not given freely. When I wanted to start driving, my dad said, “Get a job.” So, I’m the mean mom who insists they earn their rewards through good grades and behavior.
  6. We Assign Chores Without Payment
    Mean moms love to assign chores, sometimes without offering an allowance. We want our kids to understand that being part of a family means contributing, and they won’t get to play until their chores are done.
  7. We Set Boundaries Regardless of Peers
    Mean moms have a deep understanding of their kids and aren’t afraid to say no, even if other parents are saying yes. Just because your friend went to a midnight premiere at 8 doesn’t mean our house follows suit.
  8. We Encourage Balanced Meals
    We make sure our kids eat more than just mac and cheese, and yes, they have to finish their meals. I know it sounds terrible to force them to eat vegetables, but mean moms know that greens are important for their diet.
  9. We Sometimes Tune Them Out
    When they throw tantrums or scream about not getting their way, mean moms often walk away. If they keep whining, we’ve mastered the art of locking ourselves in a closet and pretending we can’t hear them.
  10. We Show Them the World Doesn’t Revolve Around Them
    Mean moms don’t put up with nonsense. We know that our kids aren’t the center of the universe—though sometimes it might feel that way. We’re the meanest moms ever, and honestly, we’re okay with that.

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Summary:

Mean moms are essential in teaching kids responsibility, accountability, and the importance of hard work. They set boundaries, encourage imagination, and ensure their children eat well. These traits may earn them the title “mean,” but in reality, they’re shaping future respectful adults.