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The Joy of a Night Out Without the Kids
By: Lily Carter
“Just one more,” I proclaimed, echoing the same enthusiasm I had for my last sip of wine. My partner, Jake, and I recently embarked on our first overnight adventure away from our four little ones, attending a wedding out of state.
The six-hour drive was a refreshing change from our usual chaos of sibling squabbles—“He’s staring at me!” “She hit me!” “I feel sick!” “I need to go!” “The baby just tossed her cup!”—but not today. We cruised in peace, enjoying the quiet, engaging in meaningful conversation, and sharing laughter as I playfully requested “just one more bite” of Jake’s bagel, even though I had insisted I didn’t want any. It’s remarkable how rejuvenating it is to be with someone who appreciates both good conversation and the comfort of silence.
During the ceremony, I found myself without a child on my lap or anyone trying to squeeze between us. Instead, Jake rested his arm across my legs, and I nestled close beside him. At dinner, we shared hearty laughs with fellow parents about the wild ride of marriage and parenthood, often laughing so hard that tears streamed down our faces.
At the reception, we indulged in “just one more” drink and danced with abandon. That night marked nine consecutive years of me either pregnant or breastfeeding, and for so long, our lives had revolved around our children. But tonight was a celebration of us—of Jake and me as a couple, and as individuals who needed a night out to rekindle our connection. It was a chance to let go of the anxiety that comes with parenting—the constant need to jump up when drinks spill, referee toddler fights, or change another diaper.
We laughed until our sides hurt, surrounded by fabulous women who seemed to have been placed there by divine intervention. It was a delightful kind of pain—one born from joy, from dancing, from drinks, and just pure fun.
As the night unfolded, every “last drink” turned into another, and we danced until our feet ached, each song a familiar favorite. It’s astonishing how much a night away can rejuvenate your spirit, strengthen your marriage, and enhance a mother’s well-being. Turns out, adults crave “just one more” as much as kids do.
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In summary, a night away from the kids can be a much-needed escape for parents, allowing them to reconnect, laugh, and rediscover each other outside the chaos of daily life.