I will never buy into the notion that kids shouldn’t be taught to share. Sure, I don’t want to raise a pack of pushovers; they don’t need to relinquish every toy they own. And let’s be honest, I’m not keen on sharing my dessert either. However, sharing cultivates confidence and empowerment in them. Is it tough sometimes? Absolutely, but anything worthwhile usually comes with challenges. Here’s why I believe in making my kids share:
- It Spreads Joy
When you instill the value of sharing in your kids, it creates a harmonious playdate atmosphere. If my kids think everything is theirs, it leads to chaos and tears, making it hard to enjoy meaningful conversations over the noise. Nobody benefits from that! - I Want Them to Be Kind Individuals
Let’s face it: a refusal to share often makes a person seem unlikable. I want my kids to be good humans who are appreciated for their kindness. Plus, if they don’t share well, I end up looking bad as a parent. I’m not about to let my kids’ refusal to share tarnish my reputation! - Siblings and Cousins Galore
With multiple kids in our family, I started teaching sharing at an early age. I knew that sooner or later, they’d have to learn to share not just with each other but also with their cousins. Besides, who wouldn’t want to be invited over for family dinners? If sharing wasn’t in their repertoire, those invites would vanish! - I Want Them to Flourish
Every parent hopes their children will thrive. By encouraging them to share their talents and time, I believe they will gain so much more in return. The universe has a way of rewarding generosity. - It Enriches Their Lives
There’s a unique joy in giving more than receiving. Whether it’s sharing compliments or snacks, the act of giving is a beautiful experience. I want my kids to revel in the joy of generosity without expecting anything in return. - It Teaches Patience
Watching someone else enjoy your favorite toy can be excruciating, but it’s an excellent lesson in patience. It builds resilience and character—qualities they will need later in life. - It’s the Right Thing to Do
While I don’t force my kids to relinquish their toys the moment someone else shows interest, I do encourage them to take turns. It just feels morally right to foster a sense of fairness. - Life Will Be Tough if They Don’t Learn
If my kids enter preschool without knowing how to share, they will face a rude awakening. Sure, they could learn quickly, but it would be a much steeper climb. They’ll have a hard time breaking old habits, and it’s easier to start early. - I Set the Example
I consider myself a sharer. Have I been accused of oversharing? Guilty as charged! I talk too much and share everything from my struggles to my successes. If I can borrow your favorite sweater, I’d totally do it! - It Fosters Self-Control
Okay, I might have snuck a slice of cheesecake to enjoy alone, but that’s adult privilege! For now, my kids need to practice sharing and understand that sometimes, it’s about giving a little so others can have a taste too.
Of course, I draw the line at sharing boogers or dirty diapers—some things are best kept to oneself. But I hope they’ll learn the distinction as they grow.
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In summary, instilling the value of sharing in children not only enhances their social skills but also prepares them for a fulfilling life filled with kindness and generosity. It’s a crucial lesson that shapes them into better individuals.